Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Post Your Favorite Thick Curvy Girls
- Thread starter Drum&Bass
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jules Verne
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Brother likes lighter-skinned, thick women.
Before we get into a flame war, I ask out of curiosity.
What shaped your taste in women? I always hear blames being put on black women (attitude problem, superiority complex based on educational degrees, etc.), and there is definitely some truth to why black men are justified in saying so. Is that it in your case? Or is there more?
Before we get into a flame war, I ask out of curiosity.
What shaped your taste in women? I always hear blames being put on black women (attitude problem, superiority complex based on educational degrees, etc.), and there is definitely some truth to why black men are justified in saying so. Is that it in your case? Or is there more?
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
I dunno its not something I put conscious thought into.
I dont have any hate or animosity towards black women. If I see a black girl that im attracted to and we click its game on !! A girls education means NOTHING to me.
I can always count on some of you sosuave guys to say some cheesy joke, lame nerd comment or insecure cut down when it comes to other guys opinions of women...
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Powerlifter
Senior Don Juan
Heres mine I just love the way she looks up to me
Powerlifter
http://pulpaddiction.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/midget_woman.jpg
Powerlifter
http://pulpaddiction.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/midget_woman.jpg
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Hitomi Tanaka.
She has some fat folds so she's not skinny.
Personally, I think she's God's gift to man.
She has some fat folds so she's not skinny.
Personally, I think she's God's gift to man.
Julius_Seizeher
Master Don Juan
When did Carmen Kinsley get so godam big? She used to be a gorgeous little thing.
Upside
Senior Don Juan
Funny thing is, I think a chick like this is 100 times hotter than a chick of average to below average weight. Not fat by any means, but a little meat to their bones. I like to hit it from behind, and I love a nice curvy ass to look at while I am doing it. ****.Maxtro said:
Drum&Bass, none of those girls aren't too appealing to me honestly as they are a little bigger than what I really like. That being said, I think Carmen would be a great lay.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Maxtro
Master Don Juan
Yup, that's Fuko. She was one of the first gravure models to make the transition to porn. As far as I know, the only other well known girl to do so is Hitomi Tanaka that I posted about previously.
Mistic
Senior Don Juan
Any Brazilian girl will do. I spent the months there and saw nothing but the most amazing bodied women. Its a sick fvcking joke they all live there.
shadowfox
Don Juan
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
WARNING! Drinking and smoking stunt your growth!Powerlifter said:Heres mine I just love the way she looks up to me
Powerlifter
http://pulpaddiction.files.wordpress.com/2008/06/midget_woman.jpg
thedude4242
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all these women are almost like fat. the only one who has a nice body and her body is not totally out of porportion is the one maxtro posted a pic of. that is the definition of a thick hot girl. their are different definitions of thick, but the ones who are fat and got a big lower body that doesnt match and go together with the rest are not hot. thick girls (meaning a hot girl who is thick) are like jojo, rachel ray, ect, mickie james and tna wrestler tara.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Drum&Bass
Master Don Juan
Most of the women that guys find attractive on this forum are boring to me.
They are just average girls with makeup who dont look very healthy. They have little to no muscle and sickly frail looking bodies. I can almost make out their bones except for a few slight lumps where an ass or tits should be.. Some of the girls I've seen on here are fit but lack qualities that make a woman feminine (curves).
Im just glad that everyone has different tastes and no one will be fighting for the same type of girl.
They are just average girls with makeup who dont look very healthy. They have little to no muscle and sickly frail looking bodies. I can almost make out their bones except for a few slight lumps where an ass or tits should be.. Some of the girls I've seen on here are fit but lack qualities that make a woman feminine (curves).
I'm not knocking anyones tastes but when I go out...There are guys that go for skinny, petite girls and there are guys, myself included who go for thin waists and thick asses.
Im just glad that everyone has different tastes and no one will be fighting for the same type of girl.
thedude4242, nice choices but for some reason you seem to think I care about your opinions of attractiveness.
I have noticed that people seem to go for women more based on their own structure. I don't mean fat, more like ectomorph vs mesomorph. I come from a skinny delineation but have always been more into the skinny girls. my friend is more of the mesomorph ( looking at his sister she is too), and goes for the bigger ones. Yet other friend is in the ectomorph category as well (as is his sister), and his tastes are more congruent to mine.
I continue to reference similar scenarios regarding preference, but it would be pretty repetitive.
Im just glad that everyone has different tastes and no one will be fighting for the same type of girl.
This is exactly what I observe within my peer groups.
I continue to reference similar scenarios regarding preference, but it would be pretty repetitive.
Im just glad that everyone has different tastes and no one will be fighting for the same type of girl.
This is exactly what I observe within my peer groups.
CuriousGirl
Senior Don Juan
In britain I'd say Nigella Lawson is a much-loved curvy woman.
http://i.thisislondon.co.uk/i/pix/2009/05/nigella-lawson-415x289.jpg
http://i.thisislondon.co.uk/i/pix/2009/05/nigella-lawson-415x289.jpg
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user43770
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.