She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I dunno its not something I put conscious thought into.What shaped your taste in women?
I dont have any hate or animosity towards black women. If I see a black girl that im attracted to and we click its game on !! A girls education means NOTHING to me.I always hear blames being put on black women (attitude problem, superiority complex based on educational degrees, etc.), and there is definitely some truth to why black men are justified in saying so. Is that it in your case? Or is there more?
I can always count on some of you sosuave guys to say some cheesy joke, lame nerd comment or insecure cut down when it comes to other guys opinions of women...Attack of the killer whales
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Funny thing is, I think a chick like this is 100 times hotter than a chick of average to below average weight. Not fat by any means, but a little meat to their bones. I like to hit it from behind, and I love a nice curvy ass to look at while I am doing it. ****.Maxtro said:Hitomi Tanaka.
She has some fat folds so she's not skinny.
Personally, I think she's God's gift to man.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WARNING! Drinking and smoking stunt your growth!Powerlifter said:Heres mine I just love the way she looks up to me![]()
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I'm not knocking anyones tastes but when I go out...There are guys that go for skinny, petite girls and there are guys, myself included who go for thin waists and thick asses.Drum&Bass, none of those girls aren't too appealing to me honestly as they are a little bigger than what I really like. That being said, I think Carmen would be a great lay.
thedude4242, nice choices but for some reason you seem to think I care about your opinions of attractiveness.rachel ray, ect, mickie james
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.