She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I dunno its not something I put conscious thought into.What shaped your taste in women?
I dont have any hate or animosity towards black women. If I see a black girl that im attracted to and we click its game on !! A girls education means NOTHING to me.I always hear blames being put on black women (attitude problem, superiority complex based on educational degrees, etc.), and there is definitely some truth to why black men are justified in saying so. Is that it in your case? Or is there more?
I can always count on some of you sosuave guys to say some cheesy joke, lame nerd comment or insecure cut down when it comes to other guys opinions of women...Attack of the killer whales
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Funny thing is, I think a chick like this is 100 times hotter than a chick of average to below average weight. Not fat by any means, but a little meat to their bones. I like to hit it from behind, and I love a nice curvy ass to look at while I am doing it. ****.Maxtro said:Hitomi Tanaka.
She has some fat folds so she's not skinny.
Personally, I think she's God's gift to man.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
WARNING! Drinking and smoking stunt your growth!Powerlifter said:Heres mine I just love the way she looks up to me![]()
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I'm not knocking anyones tastes but when I go out...There are guys that go for skinny, petite girls and there are guys, myself included who go for thin waists and thick asses.Drum&Bass, none of those girls aren't too appealing to me honestly as they are a little bigger than what I really like. That being said, I think Carmen would be a great lay.
thedude4242, nice choices but for some reason you seem to think I care about your opinions of attractiveness.rachel ray, ect, mickie james
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.