"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Post your favorite sosuave quote
- Thread starter Nocturnal
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
D@MN!!! BEEN THERE!!!!Originally posted by sux2bu
It's better to be single than to wish you were!
I second that one but there are so many of them.
The one about the word relationship shouldn't come out of your mouth until you come in her mouth is great!
Some good quotes should be some that you come up with as well, because they exemplify your own approach to life.
One I often tell myself is "Practice the fundamentals"
That is a quote commonly used in sports when people are in a rut.
I know if I practice the fundamentals with all the women I meet, it may not turn out perfectly with all of them, but it will certainly work for alot of them.
I always tell myself practice the fundamentals when I get off track and start doing AFC things or have a bad day.
Alen-Delon
Senior Don Juan
NEVER
NEVER
QUIT
Winston Churchil....
justjosh47
Don Juan
The choices you make will shape your life forever.
Movie quote-The Bronx Tale
life spent making mistakes is not only more honorable, but more useful than a life spent doing nothing.
- George Bernard Shaw
Life is a series of experiences, each one of which makes us bigger, even though it is hard to realize this. For the world was built to develop character, and we must learn that the setbacks and griefs which we endure help us in our marching onward.
-Henry Ford
My Favorite-What I once thought I was is what I have become..-Don Juan Demarcoe
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hollowpoint
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Got it from here? Maybe
penkitten
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Aztec
Master Don Juan
I found where this quote was from:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=59150
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Aztec
Master Don Juan
"Rejection is better than regret."
TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
Ragin_Asian
Senior Don Juan
"I F'uck anything that moves. If it doesn't, I'll F'uck it till it does"
Blue Phoenix
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"I am manipulative and cold hearted "Man with tits" I know that if I admit I’m not attracted to you, then you'll bail."
"don’t listen to your bullsh!t detector! Everything is all right. Yeah, that’s right, look at my tits… "
"If you see a woman with a lot of pseudo-platonic male friends, it's the equivalent of walking into a dark cave and then seeing thousands of corpses when you strike a match. There's something in the cave that you probably aren't ready for"
"NEVER, EVER, EVER get in a relationship with an attention wh0re. Like a vampire, they just suck your personal energy until you a broken man"
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Blue Phoenix
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What kind of quote is that man?
Aztec
Master Don Juan
Emily Guay
englishman
Master Don Juan
British special air services motto.
Sexy_Malibu
Master Don Juan
"Your character is who you really are... your reputation is only who others think you are. Know the difference".
And I said this one myself:
"Standards? Those are those things you lower when you're really drunk and/or really horny right?"
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.