"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Here are some songs on youtube that I just enjoy listening to.

They are just far out. Post your favourite songs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyQrok6ON0I
How many, with Luba.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMyI76g2e0A
Fleetwood Mac, Everywhere

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLfpian_dCQ
Fleetwood Mac, Little Lies

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5n6chxpEINs
Bananarama, Cruel Summer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxqT3EvT4FU
Opus - Life is Life

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9ajgPBY13c
Amazulu - Montego Bay
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you like the throw back R&B/Soul you should seriously check out Elliott Yamin's CD. If you like Stevie Wonder and Donnie Hathaway you will most likely also like Elliott Yamin. He did a remake of A Song For You that's incredible and his CD downloaded from Rhapsody or Real includes a bonus song of a remake of Terence Trent D'Arby's Sign Your Name that kicks bootay.
 
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Killapete...don't you make like playlists for another website or something? I think I've seen playlists posted under the screen name killerpete or something really similar to your name here. I swear I've downloaded a bunch of songs at your suggestion.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KillaPetehog said:
Are you sure?

:D :D :D

:D :D :D
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And I just read you're signature. It was you. haha! Those were some interesting playlists. Songs that make you wanna die? lol!

Oh and to add to this thread...Some Cut by Trillevill. Dirtiest song ever! lol!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kingstonlogic - Terry Lynn (If you like Touch It- Bustah Rhymes or Technologic - Daft Punk, you'll like this. Creative video too)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMJGIrtLq7s

Can You Work With That - AMG and Dj Quik Quik is back with bass in his voice but still killin it. Got better flow than I remember previously, quik is stil that dude..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6F9AfvTBb0

Dennis Ferrer - Touched the Sky Just a few pics of him with his song playin but the song is transcendental (sic)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_eGLZFITmk

Simian Mobile Disco - Hustler Girls playin that game where you whisper a message in each other's ear til it gets really distorted that goes horribly right. Good song also


do a search on Tenminmixes. Amateur DJ's put up mixes and i watch them for new music and tips on mixing tracks
 
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Some music clips from Janet Jackson...some good mood-lifters.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkuas587tj0 'escapade'

Feels good after listening to this one. Was depressed a bit, lifted the mood up after listening to it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvKhDiNME4E 'let's wait a while'

This is a contemplative song. It reminds me of positive experiences in my past and makes me reflect on them (although it's not related to the lyrics), based on the music style and melody, very nice.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1I7T2IXwiZA

Cool sexually charged song also a nice 'feel-good' song.
 
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Cool to see a Death video. I got to see them on their last tour before Chuck's cancer was discovered.

Getting on with it:

Katatonia- July
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLEogbdozHc

Ulver- It is Not Sound
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwSjaf3aa2M

Portishead- Only You
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0HA1CLO7PU

Hooverphonic- Inhaler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zYDZQqN93g

Carcass- Heartwork
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7lP30tSZF0

Pyogenesis- Love Nation Sugerhead (yes, their bass player at the time had only one hand)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=318fUlfqM8w

Dillinger Escape Plan- Setting Fire to Sleeping Giants
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4yxREs-mRM

Smashing Pumpkins- Daphne Descends
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hn7CZmkD970

Aborted- The Chondrin Enigma
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThefPzZbFRI

Moonspell- Nocturna
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVpXDdSrQKc

The Devin Townsend Band- Vampira
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMLXoobDKWs

Strapping Young Lad- Detox
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UOOKx-ClQw

My Dying Bride- The Dreadful Hours
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGro6xC_C9M

Mr Bungle- Quote Unquote (aka: Travolta)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbBwFdKDaKw

Faith No More- Stripsearch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EN5P_wTLKc
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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