"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Here are some songs on youtube that I just enjoy listening to.

They are just far out. Post your favourite songs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyQrok6ON0I
How many, with Luba.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMyI76g2e0A
Fleetwood Mac, Everywhere

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLfpian_dCQ
Fleetwood Mac, Little Lies

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5n6chxpEINs
Bananarama, Cruel Summer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxqT3EvT4FU
Opus - Life is Life

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9ajgPBY13c
Amazulu - Montego Bay
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you like the throw back R&B/Soul you should seriously check out Elliott Yamin's CD. If you like Stevie Wonder and Donnie Hathaway you will most likely also like Elliott Yamin. He did a remake of A Song For You that's incredible and his CD downloaded from Rhapsody or Real includes a bonus song of a remake of Terence Trent D'Arby's Sign Your Name that kicks bootay.
 
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Killapete...don't you make like playlists for another website or something? I think I've seen playlists posted under the screen name killerpete or something really similar to your name here. I swear I've downloaded a bunch of songs at your suggestion.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KillaPetehog said:
Are you sure?

:D :D :D

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And I just read you're signature. It was you. haha! Those were some interesting playlists. Songs that make you wanna die? lol!

Oh and to add to this thread...Some Cut by Trillevill. Dirtiest song ever! lol!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Kingstonlogic - Terry Lynn (If you like Touch It- Bustah Rhymes or Technologic - Daft Punk, you'll like this. Creative video too)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMJGIrtLq7s

Can You Work With That - AMG and Dj Quik Quik is back with bass in his voice but still killin it. Got better flow than I remember previously, quik is stil that dude..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6F9AfvTBb0

Dennis Ferrer - Touched the Sky Just a few pics of him with his song playin but the song is transcendental (sic)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_eGLZFITmk

Simian Mobile Disco - Hustler Girls playin that game where you whisper a message in each other's ear til it gets really distorted that goes horribly right. Good song also


do a search on Tenminmixes. Amateur DJ's put up mixes and i watch them for new music and tips on mixing tracks
 
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Some music clips from Janet Jackson...some good mood-lifters.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkuas587tj0 'escapade'

Feels good after listening to this one. Was depressed a bit, lifted the mood up after listening to it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvKhDiNME4E 'let's wait a while'

This is a contemplative song. It reminds me of positive experiences in my past and makes me reflect on them (although it's not related to the lyrics), based on the music style and melody, very nice.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1I7T2IXwiZA

Cool sexually charged song also a nice 'feel-good' song.
 
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Cool to see a Death video. I got to see them on their last tour before Chuck's cancer was discovered.

Getting on with it:

Katatonia- July
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLEogbdozHc

Ulver- It is Not Sound
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwSjaf3aa2M

Portishead- Only You
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0HA1CLO7PU

Hooverphonic- Inhaler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zYDZQqN93g

Carcass- Heartwork
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7lP30tSZF0

Pyogenesis- Love Nation Sugerhead (yes, their bass player at the time had only one hand)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=318fUlfqM8w

Dillinger Escape Plan- Setting Fire to Sleeping Giants
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4yxREs-mRM

Smashing Pumpkins- Daphne Descends
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hn7CZmkD970

Aborted- The Chondrin Enigma
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThefPzZbFRI

Moonspell- Nocturna
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVpXDdSrQKc

The Devin Townsend Band- Vampira
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMLXoobDKWs

Strapping Young Lad- Detox
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UOOKx-ClQw

My Dying Bride- The Dreadful Hours
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGro6xC_C9M

Mr Bungle- Quote Unquote (aka: Travolta)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbBwFdKDaKw

Faith No More- Stripsearch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EN5P_wTLKc
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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