"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Here are some songs on youtube that I just enjoy listening to.

They are just far out. Post your favourite songs.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XyQrok6ON0I
How many, with Luba.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KMyI76g2e0A
Fleetwood Mac, Everywhere

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mLfpian_dCQ
Fleetwood Mac, Little Lies

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5n6chxpEINs
Bananarama, Cruel Summer

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hxqT3EvT4FU
Opus - Life is Life

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u9ajgPBY13c
Amazulu - Montego Bay
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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If you like the throw back R&B/Soul you should seriously check out Elliott Yamin's CD. If you like Stevie Wonder and Donnie Hathaway you will most likely also like Elliott Yamin. He did a remake of A Song For You that's incredible and his CD downloaded from Rhapsody or Real includes a bonus song of a remake of Terence Trent D'Arby's Sign Your Name that kicks bootay.
 

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Killapete...don't you make like playlists for another website or something? I think I've seen playlists posted under the screen name killerpete or something really similar to your name here. I swear I've downloaded a bunch of songs at your suggestion.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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KillaPetehog said:
Are you sure?

:D :D :D

:D :D :D
And I just read you're signature. It was you. haha! Those were some interesting playlists. Songs that make you wanna die? lol!

Oh and to add to this thread...Some Cut by Trillevill. Dirtiest song ever! lol!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Kingstonlogic - Terry Lynn (If you like Touch It- Bustah Rhymes or Technologic - Daft Punk, you'll like this. Creative video too)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tMJGIrtLq7s

Can You Work With That - AMG and Dj Quik Quik is back with bass in his voice but still killin it. Got better flow than I remember previously, quik is stil that dude..
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6F9AfvTBb0

Dennis Ferrer - Touched the Sky Just a few pics of him with his song playin but the song is transcendental (sic)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_eGLZFITmk

Simian Mobile Disco - Hustler Girls playin that game where you whisper a message in each other's ear til it gets really distorted that goes horribly right. Good song also


do a search on Tenminmixes. Amateur DJ's put up mixes and i watch them for new music and tips on mixing tracks
 
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Some music clips from Janet Jackson...some good mood-lifters.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bkuas587tj0 'escapade'

Feels good after listening to this one. Was depressed a bit, lifted the mood up after listening to it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fvKhDiNME4E 'let's wait a while'

This is a contemplative song. It reminds me of positive experiences in my past and makes me reflect on them (although it's not related to the lyrics), based on the music style and melody, very nice.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1I7T2IXwiZA

Cool sexually charged song also a nice 'feel-good' song.
 

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Cool to see a Death video. I got to see them on their last tour before Chuck's cancer was discovered.

Getting on with it:

Katatonia- July
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gLEogbdozHc

Ulver- It is Not Sound
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nwSjaf3aa2M

Portishead- Only You
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v0HA1CLO7PU

Hooverphonic- Inhaler
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3zYDZQqN93g

Carcass- Heartwork
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B7lP30tSZF0

Pyogenesis- Love Nation Sugerhead (yes, their bass player at the time had only one hand)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=318fUlfqM8w

Dillinger Escape Plan- Setting Fire to Sleeping Giants
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K4yxREs-mRM

Smashing Pumpkins- Daphne Descends
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hn7CZmkD970

Aborted- The Chondrin Enigma
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ThefPzZbFRI

Moonspell- Nocturna
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tVpXDdSrQKc

The Devin Townsend Band- Vampira
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MMLXoobDKWs

Strapping Young Lad- Detox
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3UOOKx-ClQw

My Dying Bride- The Dreadful Hours
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RGro6xC_C9M

Mr Bungle- Quote Unquote (aka: Travolta)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RbBwFdKDaKw

Faith No More- Stripsearch
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1EN5P_wTLKc
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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