RickTheToad
Moderator
Be yourself.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
To some extent you have to be something you're not if you want to become someone who gets what you wantGenerally any advice that tells you to be insincere and go out of your way to be something you're not, is horrible advice. If you're a funny guy, who's struggling with game, then trying to be a stiff will just be, well.... a creepy stiff with awkward conversation. And this was advice I recently read here from a guy who said that "being funny [is] feminine energy." Clearly not the sharpest tool in the shed....
Until they wisen up. Romance is needed but in very small doses.=> Turns out it's men who are tend to be more hopelessly romantic than women.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
... By learning it the HARD way themselves.Until they wisen up.
It's the most legendary meme of all timeI've always been curious....why the James van der Beek crying avatar?