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“Chicks dig bad boys. Be a bad boy”

If you ain’t a “Bad Boy” trying to become one and putting on an act just because you think it will get you any chick that likes “bad boys” is the ultimate in pedestalizing chicks and most likely damaged ones at that.


“Wait X number of days to call / play hard to get.”

No. Call when the hell you want to. And if you’re going to “play hard to get” some other dude is going to just go for her like a man while you hold your breath like a toddler.


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I've heard so many of these...

1. Be friends first.

2. Tell her how you feel.

3. Text her after the date to tell her you had a nice time and want to see her again.

4. Beautiful women are lonely because men don't approach them.

5. Women like shy guys.

6. Use c&f non-stop. If you stop busting on her, you will lose attraction.

7. Never answer a question. Just go around in circles, be evasive and avoid ever giving an answer.

8. Ugly guys have the advantage over good looking guys because they show more confidence when they approach.

9. Be romantic.

10. If she ghosts you, text her back for feedback on what you did wrong.

11. Have a dad bod so you look more "real." Women don't really want to be with some "fake" looking guy that looks like he goes to a gym frequently lol.
 

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I've heard so many of these...

4. Beautiful women are lonely because men don't approach them.
That one is nothing more than attention seeking and a self serving advertisement.

it means the dudes they want to approach them don't. the rest of you? give me attention that I'll use you for and dismiss you the second the guy i really want pays me a second of attention.

I get a kick out of that nonsense.
 

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That one is nothing more than attention seeking and a self serving advertisement.

it means the dudes they want to approach them don't. the rest of you? give me attention that I'll use you for and dismiss you the second the guy i really want pays me a second of attention.

I get a kick out of that nonsense.
Understood.

Besides being BAD advice, it's very old blue pill advice that was around long before PUA stuff. To be fair, I think it actually came from guys not girls.

Some guys really WANT to believe that it is easier to get a hottie. They would love to believe that it's easier to pickup an HB8-9 because she's lonely and ignored by guys lol.
 

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12. It's ok to be a 30 yo virgin. Plenty of women would love to break you in.

13. If you are striking out with online dating, it's not because of your looks/pictures. Your profile text isn't interesting enough, or it might have a grammatical error lol.

14. Just be funny. As long as you are the class clown all the time, she will throw her panties at you.

15. Don't own a cat. Women only trust guys with dogs.

I'll think of more later...
 

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Women are kind and caring and just don't want to see you get hurt.

Play a boom box outside her bedroom window.
 

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This is a great thread. I see the SS Hall of Excellence in its future.
Of course it is. It's Naughty Ninja quality.

Though you haven't added your worst dating advice contribution. Just sayin.
 
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