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[Anchor man]

Another troll apparently who goes to great lengths to try and disguise his trolling. The ignore button sets you free.

it is troll, don't come here you have the whole forum

 

[Anchor man]

Which leads to the most important question for initial dates: how physically attractive are you? You are 7 or below, based upon your description of events.

You have to be honest at identifying and eliminating as many physical flaws as possible: acne, excess weight, bad haircut, lame wardrobe, too skinny, etc.

Tight game will only take you so far. It won't get you anywhere at all if you are below average in looks. At least not with cold approach or online dating.

Thanks, but keep it to yourself . I think you might need this more than me. Especially with your endless effort to give an advice which I told you I didn't need it or want it.
On scale from 1-10 I am .5

 

[davidcarr]

Thanks, but keep it to yourself . I think you might need this more than me. Especially with your endless effort to give an advice which I told you I didn't need it or want it.
On scale from 1-10 I am .5

OK, so you are average or below average in looks. Below average most likely. I would say 5 or below. Guys who are at least average in appearance have enough self esteem to believe they can actually get a girl through normal means.

Guys who are below average resort to the tactics you employ: tryhard behavior. This only turns the girl off more and leads to endless frustration.

Improve your looks, the results will follow.

 

[Spaz]

2nd Question : I should have withdrawn the offer . Maybe I could have said something like " You know what my schedule fills up pretty quickly . I'd love to see you but I like to make definite plans . If you are not sure about your schedule, let then do it another time . "

Then my answer is no.

I wouldn't have done anything.

That would be a bad move.

 

[davidcarr]

2nd Question : I should have withdrawn the offer . Maybe I could have said something like " You know what my schedule fills up pretty quickly . I'd love to see you but I like to make definite plans . If you are not sure about your schedule, let then do it another time . "

Cheap used car salesman tactic. It just reeks of desperation.

"See that HOT '72 datsun with 300,000 miles on it, rusted out underbody and fenders, smashed windows with bird dung splattered all over it? I had 200 people ask about it today alone, but I'll hold it just for you!"

 

[The Diver]

since she said " I'll try to make it"

Man, make it easier on yourself to understand women, any combination with the words :

I'll try
maybe
I'll let you know
Not too sure yet
Need to know you a bit better,,,,,,,,,,,and so on

are indications of low-interest, and unless she got back to you with a firm day and time, her answer is basically NO.

a woman who's really interested in you will make it easier on you to date her.