"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It was like any other bar night for me and afew of my friends going to a local bar to celebrate the end of finals. I drank quite a bit that night but like most college students, I know my alcohol limit. I was completely incoherent that night and could barely talk. I suspect that my oneitis and her friends had something to do with it. They seemed overly nice to me that night. One of her friends which I've barely said afew words to was being strange to me and overly talkative. My oneitis seemed overly friendly also. I don't know why but I have a gut feeling that they had something to do with this. I can't think of any reason why they would do anything like that though. A few weeks prior to this night I have been pretty much ignoring my oneitis except for a few AIM coversations that she has initiated. I'm thinking that she may have drugged me so I would talk to her that night but I don't know maybe I'm being paranoid. I suspect she's an attention wh0re by the way. She essentially LJBFed me afew weeks ago and I at first tried in vain to explain that I was looking for something more than a friend. I wasn't overboard with it or anything I simply said I don't know if I have anything to offer as a friend but eventually said I would and went on my way. Ever since then she has intiated every AIM conversation (she's not big into the phone...alittle immature and shy) Has this ever happened to anyone? Do you think an attention wh0re would take it as far as drugging me to get me to give her attention? How would I go about bringing this up without seeming like an interrogation?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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:crackup: - that's good. An AW drugging you for futher unantiquated attention. It will become a new craze, AWs drugging guys they LJBFed and all for that ever important attention to stroke their egos.

No .. she didn't drug you. Treat her like crap and she'll become your slave.
 
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you got a lot of help in this thread.

Maybe they slipped you a bit of something, so who cares as long as you didnt make an ass out of yourself its all good.

if you really believe this then just finish all your drinks before you go anywhere so as not to leave them unattended.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You didn't wake up with a sore azz, did you?

If so, then you definitely were drugged.
 
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I woke up in my own bed thank you....a very hot friend of mine(girl) drove me home who happens to be one of my best friends ex-gf's(damn). She knows I wouldn't hit it because of my friend and she's all over me all the time....ahh the fickleness.
 
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