"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Possibly drugged

Remulak

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It was like any other bar night for me and afew of my friends going to a local bar to celebrate the end of finals. I drank quite a bit that night but like most college students, I know my alcohol limit. I was completely incoherent that night and could barely talk. I suspect that my oneitis and her friends had something to do with it. They seemed overly nice to me that night. One of her friends which I've barely said afew words to was being strange to me and overly talkative. My oneitis seemed overly friendly also. I don't know why but I have a gut feeling that they had something to do with this. I can't think of any reason why they would do anything like that though. A few weeks prior to this night I have been pretty much ignoring my oneitis except for a few AIM coversations that she has initiated. I'm thinking that she may have drugged me so I would talk to her that night but I don't know maybe I'm being paranoid. I suspect she's an attention wh0re by the way. She essentially LJBFed me afew weeks ago and I at first tried in vain to explain that I was looking for something more than a friend. I wasn't overboard with it or anything I simply said I don't know if I have anything to offer as a friend but eventually said I would and went on my way. Ever since then she has intiated every AIM conversation (she's not big into the phone...alittle immature and shy) Has this ever happened to anyone? Do you think an attention wh0re would take it as far as drugging me to get me to give her attention? How would I go about bringing this up without seeming like an interrogation?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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tmpgstx

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:crackup: - that's good. An AW drugging you for futher unantiquated attention. It will become a new craze, AWs drugging guys they LJBFed and all for that ever important attention to stroke their egos.

No .. she didn't drug you. Treat her like crap and she'll become your slave.
 

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you got a lot of help in this thread.

Maybe they slipped you a bit of something, so who cares as long as you didnt make an ass out of yourself its all good.

if you really believe this then just finish all your drinks before you go anywhere so as not to leave them unattended.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You didn't wake up with a sore azz, did you?

If so, then you definitely were drugged.
 

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I woke up in my own bed thank you....a very hot friend of mine(girl) drove me home who happens to be one of my best friends ex-gf's(damn). She knows I wouldn't hit it because of my friend and she's all over me all the time....ahh the fickleness.
 
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