"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Possible Low T?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lizardking82
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Like, are there any other factors contributing to your doubts about this?Tbh they're pretty weak, I haven't had a legit boner in awhile lol . I also feel pretty tired and I've had mind fog like concentration problems lately.It could be, but you better get it checked out. You cannot say you got low T just cause you don't get random erections. How is your erection when you get one?
What would you say are some dangers from it if I've had it and haven't known?It could be, but you better get it checked out. You cannot say you got low T just cause you don't get random erections. How is your erection when you get one?
dustmuffin
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Alright, How do you think it improves things for you overall? How would I notice a difference with it?
lizardking82
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Well, that is a bit more clear now. If you've had weak boners and do not get random boners and your concentration is down and you're struggling with motivation, then that is quite indicative of what could be low T. However, unless there is someone who works as a doctor that's part of SS, I think you should check it out professionally
