"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Possible Low T?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lizardking82
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Like, are there any other factors contributing to your doubts about this?Tbh they're pretty weak, I haven't had a legit boner in awhile lol . I also feel pretty tired and I've had mind fog like concentration problems lately.It could be, but you better get it checked out. You cannot say you got low T just cause you don't get random erections. How is your erection when you get one?
What would you say are some dangers from it if I've had it and haven't known?It could be, but you better get it checked out. You cannot say you got low T just cause you don't get random erections. How is your erection when you get one?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alright, How do you think it improves things for you overall? How would I notice a difference with it?
lizardking82
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Well, that is a bit more clear now. If you've had weak boners and do not get random boners and your concentration is down and you're struggling with motivation, then that is quite indicative of what could be low T. However, unless there is someone who works as a doctor that's part of SS, I think you should check it out professionally
