Are you kidding, that's never over. You're always going to watch how you talk to her and how you talk about her. That's the biggest problem when kids come into play, you're never done with them, even once the marriage is technically over. She owns you for the foreseeable future, unless you live completely off the grid, which is next to impossible to do. You can do it but then you're mostly punishing yourself, so she still wins.You should be okay. She has shown she has the capacity to make the same as you. The courts will look at that, regardles of what she chooses to do with her employment situation. It sounds like she is just regurgitating nonsense to get you to react.
Remember, the emotional verbal assault is a womans playground. Try your best not to get sucked into it. In my situation, I had to literally ignore her for several months and funnel everything through the attorney.
You started making more money and she decides she needs more child support from you? Yep, you guessed it, you're back in family court. She decides she doesn't want you seeing the kid as much? Yep, you guessed it, you're back in family court. Consider your calendar potentially booked at any time in the future until the kids are like 21.