“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Possible BPD alert.

sylvester the cat

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Only had two dates with this 25 year old and already I got a bad feeling about her.

Red flags so far:

1) Mother left her to be raised by grandparents.
2) Father used to be or still is a heavy gambler.
3) Troubled relationship with sisters.
4) Half joking references to me moving in with her (on date two).
5) Large tattoo across upper back.
6) Numerous questioning whether I'm married or have children.
7) Before date gives me an alternative phone to contact her on due to other one's battery being dead but during date I notice that she is using the supposed dead phone.
8) Intense declarations of feelings and how she wants to spend more time with me one day. Radio silence on other days.
9) Addictively fun to be around.

The only red flag missing is her giving it up already. This she hasn't done. However, common sense tells me to eject immediately.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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She's definitely wife material. You should propose this weekend
 

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skinnyguy said:
She's definitely wife material. You should propose this weekend
the weekend is four days away. that's a lifetime in BPD world. you don't think i should do it sooner?
 

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She does touch a lot of bases, especially the last one. I always felt like I was with a very high-priced escort.

Other indications could be:
substance abuse issues of her own
having clingy orbiter exes that she denies stringing along but really is
being kind of a screw-up career-wise

Typically they will have multiple kids with multiple men, who inevitably end up raising the kid themselves. Maybe she just hasn't gotten started yet.
 
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