"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Possessive.

Rainman4707

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What do you guys think of this piece from a book

"The result is that, although both males & females of these species try to prevent their partner for being unfaithful, males are significantly more possessive of their partners than females. They are significantly more aggressive, & significantly less forgiving."
 

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then its normal and more males should be like that? serious you can never be 100% sure the child she is having is yours, she is sure of who is the mom but daddy? good luck on that

on another note you want to be sure on who will use your resources.
 

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families tend to favor the children of daughters..... maybe an innate sense that they are sure they are related
 

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Well I could fvck 100 women and get the pregnant then coming back home as new as I was.

If a woman get pregnant then run back home she is basically bringing that in everyones life not only hers.

Biology and instincts are not wrong, stupid laws and culture are.

Btw ever wondered why 20yrs old guys are possessive toward their gf while 50yrs old dont give much of a fvck and even send them alone at vacation?

On the other side 50yrs women are more possessive toward their husbands than 20yrs old ones...sexual market value anyone?
 

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I mostly agree. Although I feel like that if you're attractive (not just physically) and play your cards right, then women will just as be possessive of you... or even more so.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

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Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"The result is that, although both males & females of these species try to prevent their partner for being unfaithful, males are significantly more possessive of their partners than females. They are significantly more aggressive, & significantly less forgiving."
As Alvafe noted, this makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. But I'm not sure if I agree with this, or if it's just feminist propaganda. Women love to paint men as being possessive, so this idea may just be their spin on it. Because I have known some very, very jealous women in my time.

And speaking of "evolutionary standpoint", if it true that women are the ones who seek relationships, then it would also make sense if women were actually more possessive, because they would be seeking to protect that relationship. The more I think about it, the more I think women are actually more possessive.
 

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As Alvafe noted, this makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. But I'm not sure if I agree with this, or if it's just feminist propaganda. Women love to paint men as being possessive, so this idea may just be their spin on it. Because I have known some very, very jealous women in my time.

And speaking of "evolutionary standpoint", if it true that women are the ones who seek relationships, then it would also make sense if women were actually more possessive, because they would be seeking to protect that relationship. The more I think about it, the more I think women are actually more possessive.
Really depends on the SMV of the man. If it's high, you'd think she'd do anything to please him. Other case a low SMV male is just a placeholder and she'll push buttons 24/7
 

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Thanks for the feedback :) I find jealousy to be a fascinating subject. .
 

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Thanks for the feedback :) I find jealousy to be a fascinating subject. .
Jealousy is about control. She/he is not doing what I want them to do. My GF is over there talking to another guy, I should get jealous because she shouldn't be doing that and she should be listening to me right. At the root it's still about control. But in retrospect, the less you care about what your plate/gf Is doing on her own time, the better you feel.
 

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Jealousy... I can't deal with it... theres no talking it down. Lost cause. Hopefully things will workout on thier own.

"Who can stand before jealousy?"
 

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