"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rainman4707

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What do you guys think of this piece from a book

"The result is that, although both males & females of these species try to prevent their partner for being unfaithful, males are significantly more possessive of their partners than females. They are significantly more aggressive, & significantly less forgiving."
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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then its normal and more males should be like that? serious you can never be 100% sure the child she is having is yours, she is sure of who is the mom but daddy? good luck on that

on another note you want to be sure on who will use your resources.
 

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families tend to favor the children of daughters..... maybe an innate sense that they are sure they are related
 

Who Dares Win

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Well I could fvck 100 women and get the pregnant then coming back home as new as I was.

If a woman get pregnant then run back home she is basically bringing that in everyones life not only hers.

Biology and instincts are not wrong, stupid laws and culture are.

Btw ever wondered why 20yrs old guys are possessive toward their gf while 50yrs old dont give much of a fvck and even send them alone at vacation?

On the other side 50yrs women are more possessive toward their husbands than 20yrs old ones...sexual market value anyone?
 

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I mostly agree. Although I feel like that if you're attractive (not just physically) and play your cards right, then women will just as be possessive of you... or even more so.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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"The result is that, although both males & females of these species try to prevent their partner for being unfaithful, males are significantly more possessive of their partners than females. They are significantly more aggressive, & significantly less forgiving."
As Alvafe noted, this makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. But I'm not sure if I agree with this, or if it's just feminist propaganda. Women love to paint men as being possessive, so this idea may just be their spin on it. Because I have known some very, very jealous women in my time.

And speaking of "evolutionary standpoint", if it true that women are the ones who seek relationships, then it would also make sense if women were actually more possessive, because they would be seeking to protect that relationship. The more I think about it, the more I think women are actually more possessive.
 

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As Alvafe noted, this makes sense from an evolutionary standpoint. But I'm not sure if I agree with this, or if it's just feminist propaganda. Women love to paint men as being possessive, so this idea may just be their spin on it. Because I have known some very, very jealous women in my time.

And speaking of "evolutionary standpoint", if it true that women are the ones who seek relationships, then it would also make sense if women were actually more possessive, because they would be seeking to protect that relationship. The more I think about it, the more I think women are actually more possessive.
Really depends on the SMV of the man. If it's high, you'd think she'd do anything to please him. Other case a low SMV male is just a placeholder and she'll push buttons 24/7
 

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Thanks for the feedback :) I find jealousy to be a fascinating subject. .
 

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Thanks for the feedback :) I find jealousy to be a fascinating subject. .
Jealousy is about control. She/he is not doing what I want them to do. My GF is over there talking to another guy, I should get jealous because she shouldn't be doing that and she should be listening to me right. At the root it's still about control. But in retrospect, the less you care about what your plate/gf Is doing on her own time, the better you feel.
 

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Jealousy... I can't deal with it... theres no talking it down. Lost cause. Hopefully things will workout on thier own.

"Who can stand before jealousy?"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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