the_azn_fu
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Hey, i was wondering if it's possible to neg too much. And if it is, how do you pull yourself out without looking like an AFC?
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Possbile to Neg too much?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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What kind of question is that? Of course. You can do anything in excess. You have to practice moderation.the_azn_fu said:
Francisco d'Anconia
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Search the forum. Learn what a Neg truly is and when you are supposed to use it. Don't use negs as a way to compensate for having the personality of an @sshole. Harsh but true (nothing personal).
the_azn_fu
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okay, so after you neg too much, how do you pull yourself out without being AFC?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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the_azn_fu said:
The answer is to stop using the neg so much in the first place. Pretty straight up, no?
Seems a lot of the newer guys here are using all of these basic little convo techniques as if everything else circles around it. You're suppose to use this stuff as an enhancer.
It is very much like adding spices to a meal. If you add too much of one, it diminishes the effect all of the others, yet you also retain the flexiablity to be able to add more or less of each "flavor" depending on a persons indivdual taste.
I can cook a kick ass sauce, but far too much garlic will ruin it. On the other hand, if the person eating it happens to love garlic, I can add a little more than usual to suit that taste, or vice versa, much less for the non-garlic lovers, etc. etc. That's how you're suppose to use this stuff in rapport.
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