Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Airwolf

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How many of you would pose nude in a mag like Playgirl? I think it would be kinda cool knowing that all these women were lusting after my naked body.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Skel

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Id do it for money but honestly I dont think anyone would be lusting after my body.
 

Celadus

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Probably be a lot more gay males masturbating to your body than women lusting after it.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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I'd do it, but I don't think it would be "all those women" who'd be lusting after my naked body,..heh.
 

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i have a nice body and c*ck. why not.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MrConfidence

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Sounds just a tad bit homosexual to me.
 

Charm&Style

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Ya, i think its way diff in a mans case. For when a woman poses nude, the main target of attention is male, whereas if a guy poses nude i think he mite get more attention from homos than HB's.

So bust your balls out and enjoy other men sitting and wanking to your buttchecks all day long.
 

WhitePimp

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That's how Ron Jeremy's career got started :rock:
 

ValleyDJing

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This one chick once wanted me to pose nude for a drawing she was doing for her art class. I chickened out though, back in my AFC days. I regret it big time, could've been fun. I'd consider myself an exhibitionist and I'd do it nowadays in a second.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ExploringOne

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Ehh, I'd probably do it if there was some compensation. Wouldn't have to be much, say a bj from the girl taking the pictures...
 

Mjazz

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what kind of self respecting decent girl would read playgirl? honestly I think the only people lusting after your body would be gay guys and gross old women, but if I got paid enough I would do it.
 

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Funny, just the other day I pondered the nude modeling route for art classes, because I really should get some part-time income in addition to my full-time job. But for Playgirl? Do you really want to chance getting hit on gay guys who recognize you from their... quiet moments?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sparky0000

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Deep Dish said:
Funny, just the other day I pondered the nude modeling route for art classes, because I really should get some part-time income in addition to my full-time job. But for Playgirl? Do you really want to chance getting hit on gay guys who recognize you from their... quiet moments?
Dude, who do you think takes those art classes? Probably the same guys who read Playgirl. Gay guys always love to load up on art classes.

I quick sketched you. You like??
http://photos21.flickr.com/25606129_c6847eb8db_o.jpg
 

Deep Dish

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sparky0000 said:
Dude, who do you think takes those art classes? Probably the same guys who read Playgirl. Gay guys always love to load up on art classes.
I didn't take a look at the picture but you might have a good point.
 

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Charm&Style said:
...even if the girl looks like a monkey?
If you're into bestiality, go for it...:eek:

As for me, since senior year of high school I have not been with anything less then an 8...:rockon:
 

sparky0000

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ExploringOne said:
If you're into bestiality, go for it...:eek:

As for me, since senior year of high school I have not been with anything less then an 8...:rockon:
Where do they put these numbers on females? Do I have to flip her over to find where the number 8 is? Numbers mean nothing. An eight to you might be a three to another dude. Now, I would propose that you post pictures of girls and I will give you their official score. I'm tough, but fair. Let the games begin. :up:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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