"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Airwolf

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How many of you would pose nude in a mag like Playgirl? I think it would be kinda cool knowing that all these women were lusting after my naked body.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Skel

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Id do it for money but honestly I dont think anyone would be lusting after my body.
 

Celadus

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Probably be a lot more gay males masturbating to your body than women lusting after it.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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I'd do it, but I don't think it would be "all those women" who'd be lusting after my naked body,..heh.
 

nonchalant

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i have a nice body and c*ck. why not.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrConfidence

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Sounds just a tad bit homosexual to me.
 

Charm&Style

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Ya, i think its way diff in a mans case. For when a woman poses nude, the main target of attention is male, whereas if a guy poses nude i think he mite get more attention from homos than HB's.

So bust your balls out and enjoy other men sitting and wanking to your buttchecks all day long.
 

WhitePimp

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That's how Ron Jeremy's career got started :rock:
 

ValleyDJing

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This one chick once wanted me to pose nude for a drawing she was doing for her art class. I chickened out though, back in my AFC days. I regret it big time, could've been fun. I'd consider myself an exhibitionist and I'd do it nowadays in a second.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ehh, I'd probably do it if there was some compensation. Wouldn't have to be much, say a bj from the girl taking the pictures...
 

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what kind of self respecting decent girl would read playgirl? honestly I think the only people lusting after your body would be gay guys and gross old women, but if I got paid enough I would do it.
 

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Funny, just the other day I pondered the nude modeling route for art classes, because I really should get some part-time income in addition to my full-time job. But for Playgirl? Do you really want to chance getting hit on gay guys who recognize you from their... quiet moments?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sparky0000

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Deep Dish said:
Funny, just the other day I pondered the nude modeling route for art classes, because I really should get some part-time income in addition to my full-time job. But for Playgirl? Do you really want to chance getting hit on gay guys who recognize you from their... quiet moments?
Dude, who do you think takes those art classes? Probably the same guys who read Playgirl. Gay guys always love to load up on art classes.

I quick sketched you. You like??
http://photos21.flickr.com/25606129_c6847eb8db_o.jpg
 

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sparky0000 said:
Dude, who do you think takes those art classes? Probably the same guys who read Playgirl. Gay guys always love to load up on art classes.
I didn't take a look at the picture but you might have a good point.
 

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Charm&Style said:
...even if the girl looks like a monkey?
If you're into bestiality, go for it...:eek:

As for me, since senior year of high school I have not been with anything less then an 8...:rockon:
 

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ExploringOne said:
If you're into bestiality, go for it...:eek:

As for me, since senior year of high school I have not been with anything less then an 8...:rockon:
Where do they put these numbers on females? Do I have to flip her over to find where the number 8 is? Numbers mean nothing. An eight to you might be a three to another dude. Now, I would propose that you post pictures of girls and I will give you their official score. I'm tough, but fair. Let the games begin. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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