"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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3countriesPlan

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What up... haven't been back to Ptown for 2 years and will be back for about a week...(1/28-2/9 with time over on the East Coast) looking to maybe meet up with a wing to maybe hit the bars or just hash about the game.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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syemour

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Im in. Just send me a pm and we can figure it out. What spots did you normally go to when you were here? Barrel Room, and couture are pretty cool now, but then again I guess that depends on what you like.
 

Evzone

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I'm down for whatever. Barrel Room is always a fun spot.

Anyone get in touch with these guys? http://pdxlair.com

I'm on their Meetup group but haven't gone to any of their stuff yet
 

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Well used to go to McFaddens.. Barracuda, and even Ohm.. but the nightscene in Ptown has changed a bunch I guess... never heard of those two places.. and had no clue there is a PDX lair.. thanks for the info..
 

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Alright so I went to the PDX Lair inner game workshop on Sunday, and it was legit. The group was small, but I guess because not everybody showed up...there's a lot more people on the Meetup group who want to actually hit the town than go to workshops.

Anyways yeah the hot spots in town now seem like Dirty, Barrel Room, and that whole strip basically on 2nd Avenue. McFaddens honestly hasn't been as popping as it used to be...kind of odd since that used to be a hot spot.

Aura honestly has never impressed me as a club. Some of my friends like that spot, but it seems like whenever I go it's just aging, unattractive females or really shy exchange students.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Aura is a fob club.. I went once back in 2003. Guess there is a whole lot of new places.. it will be nice to go out one or two times
 

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Hey guys. Looking to do some sargin in Portland. I'm down for whatever. Whether you want to do some sargin, hang out etc. Looking to expand my social circle with like minded people that have a goal in conquering women.

My goal is to get a wingman or 2 and hit the clubs every fri/sat (and possibly thursdays too).

Anyone interested? Let's do this!
 
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