"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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3countriesPlan

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What up... haven't been back to Ptown for 2 years and will be back for about a week...(1/28-2/9 with time over on the East Coast) looking to maybe meet up with a wing to maybe hit the bars or just hash about the game.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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syemour

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Im in. Just send me a pm and we can figure it out. What spots did you normally go to when you were here? Barrel Room, and couture are pretty cool now, but then again I guess that depends on what you like.
 

Evzone

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I'm down for whatever. Barrel Room is always a fun spot.

Anyone get in touch with these guys? http://pdxlair.com

I'm on their Meetup group but haven't gone to any of their stuff yet
 

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Well used to go to McFaddens.. Barracuda, and even Ohm.. but the nightscene in Ptown has changed a bunch I guess... never heard of those two places.. and had no clue there is a PDX lair.. thanks for the info..
 

Evzone

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Alright so I went to the PDX Lair inner game workshop on Sunday, and it was legit. The group was small, but I guess because not everybody showed up...there's a lot more people on the Meetup group who want to actually hit the town than go to workshops.

Anyways yeah the hot spots in town now seem like Dirty, Barrel Room, and that whole strip basically on 2nd Avenue. McFaddens honestly hasn't been as popping as it used to be...kind of odd since that used to be a hot spot.

Aura honestly has never impressed me as a club. Some of my friends like that spot, but it seems like whenever I go it's just aging, unattractive females or really shy exchange students.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aura is a fob club.. I went once back in 2003. Guess there is a whole lot of new places.. it will be nice to go out one or two times
 

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Hey guys. Looking to do some sargin in Portland. I'm down for whatever. Whether you want to do some sargin, hang out etc. Looking to expand my social circle with like minded people that have a goal in conquering women.

My goal is to get a wingman or 2 and hit the clubs every fri/sat (and possibly thursdays too).

Anyone interested? Let's do this!
 
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