"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Porn has completely destroyed me

Oxide

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djbr said:
It will be a hell lot of fun, to say the least, when men start to demand porn star looks of women! :crackup:
Come on, can't you see how this is going to backfire? With women putting everything into her looks, she will neglect her personality/intelligence. It is already happening - a hot girl can be dumb and that's A OK. Not for me, If we are talking long term partners she better have something going for her besides looks.

Oh yeah, and those hot girls from HS? They are working at hair salons. I think 1-2 ok-cute girls from my school actually are going somewhere in life.

Women should be judged not only on looks but on mind as well. Give me a porn star with a nobel prize in economics!!


Biologically we wanted women with large breasts and wide hips. being beautiful meant she was healthy. Now you can buy beautiful - but how will fake breasts and botox replace the real thing when it comes to child birth and child nurture?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oxide said:
Come on, can't you see how this is going to backfire?
Yes, but it's definitely out of my control. I prefer to get with the program than to be left out the party.

Oxide said:
With women putting everything into her looks, she will neglect her personality/intelligence. It is already happening - a hot girl can be dumb and that's A OK. Not for me, If we are talking long term partners she better have something going for her besides looks.
We are in different countries and all, but sorry to say, it already happen around here.

It's not just with hotties either. In fact, any girl with a minimum of male attention drops her intelligence/personality in a heartbeat. The ones who rely on intelligence are the ones who can't compete on hotness, and these doesn't get much action, or sell themselves really short.

Oxide said:
Oh yeah, and those hot girls from HS? They are working at hair salons. I think 1-2 ok-cute girls from my school actually are going somewhere in life.
Not here my friend. They're now with a rich boyfriend getting gifts gifts gifts and fvcking the whole male population of her college class behind his back.

Oxide said:
Women should be judged not only on looks but on mind as well. Give me a porn star with a nobel prize in economics!!
I personally would find that really boring. (the nobel prize part)

To each his own. I just do not enjoy reasoning with a woman.

Oxide said:
Biologically we wanted women with large breasts and wide hips. being beautiful meant she was healthy. Now you can buy beautiful - but how will fake breasts and botox replace the real thing when it comes to child birth and child nurture?
They do not. And then? You're still aroused.

Using makeup is not really new and no one said zilch about it.
 
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