"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Porn has completely destroyed me

Oxide

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djbr said:
It will be a hell lot of fun, to say the least, when men start to demand porn star looks of women! :crackup:
Come on, can't you see how this is going to backfire? With women putting everything into her looks, she will neglect her personality/intelligence. It is already happening - a hot girl can be dumb and that's A OK. Not for me, If we are talking long term partners she better have something going for her besides looks.

Oh yeah, and those hot girls from HS? They are working at hair salons. I think 1-2 ok-cute girls from my school actually are going somewhere in life.

Women should be judged not only on looks but on mind as well. Give me a porn star with a nobel prize in economics!!


Biologically we wanted women with large breasts and wide hips. being beautiful meant she was healthy. Now you can buy beautiful - but how will fake breasts and botox replace the real thing when it comes to child birth and child nurture?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oxide said:
Come on, can't you see how this is going to backfire?
Yes, but it's definitely out of my control. I prefer to get with the program than to be left out the party.

Oxide said:
With women putting everything into her looks, she will neglect her personality/intelligence. It is already happening - a hot girl can be dumb and that's A OK. Not for me, If we are talking long term partners she better have something going for her besides looks.
We are in different countries and all, but sorry to say, it already happen around here.

It's not just with hotties either. In fact, any girl with a minimum of male attention drops her intelligence/personality in a heartbeat. The ones who rely on intelligence are the ones who can't compete on hotness, and these doesn't get much action, or sell themselves really short.

Oxide said:
Oh yeah, and those hot girls from HS? They are working at hair salons. I think 1-2 ok-cute girls from my school actually are going somewhere in life.
Not here my friend. They're now with a rich boyfriend getting gifts gifts gifts and fvcking the whole male population of her college class behind his back.

Oxide said:
Women should be judged not only on looks but on mind as well. Give me a porn star with a nobel prize in economics!!
I personally would find that really boring. (the nobel prize part)

To each his own. I just do not enjoy reasoning with a woman.

Oxide said:
Biologically we wanted women with large breasts and wide hips. being beautiful meant she was healthy. Now you can buy beautiful - but how will fake breasts and botox replace the real thing when it comes to child birth and child nurture?
They do not. And then? You're still aroused.

Using makeup is not really new and no one said zilch about it.
 
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