"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Porn doesnt turn me on
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Being a porn addict must suck bad. I bet it has nothing to do with real life. Then you can only get on to porn... It should be exactly the other way around.
I personally can't understand how some guys can jack off to their onietisis or girls they met in real life. That never ocurred to me.
everywomanshero
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
nightcrawler
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try gay porn and report back.Adma said:
I am the same way. I don't do porn, but the couple of times I have seen it my first instinct was to avert my eyes. It just doesn't arouse me at all.
A pretty chick with nice clothes that I see in person on turns me on way more than porn.
Paintballguy
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I agree. I think it is the whole tease thing. When you watch porn, everything is just out there right away. IE, the girl is butt ass naked getting rammed in under 10 seconds. Rather then seeing a hot girl in public thinking "damn i'd love to see her naked". Thats just my opinion anyways.Darth said:
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
CapedCrusader08
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LOL. Watching Jessica Simpson having sex like the movie Basic Instinct would turn me on more than seeing a girl with clothes on going to work Monday morning at 8:30 am.Paintballguy said:
Porn doesn't hurt, and if you watch it all day and night, then yes, you may have a problem. Some girls I know have said the sex they have with a guy who doesn't watch porn has sucked beyond belief and the sex with the guys who watch porn has been pretty good. Just something to think about.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Randallpink83
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hahaha - good stuffmuhuwahaha said:
Forty0ztoFreedom
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For me though, the biggest issue is the de-sensitizing it does. When a pair of boobs seems like old news to you, you have a problem. Personally I've cut way back, but caved in last Saturday. Oh well.
Rollo Tomassi
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Get busy ƒucking real women gentlemen. Sex is in your bedroom, not on the monitor.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.