Porn addiction

[SHakuhachi]

I watch 2-3 porn movies everyday. Even if I do my homework I turn some porn video on just for fun.

Does anybody here have the same problem? Or does anybody know how to quit?

 

[CadillacCTS]

I used to have the same problem as you. I think you should treat serouisly because it is real addiction and it will affect your life. When I was trying to quit I found it to be really difficult, and I had many relapses, but I stuck with it and now I have it under control. Here is what I did....

I every day that Im clean, I write it the date down on a MS word file, and the days that I relapse I highlight it in red. I think u should get it of the "streak" mentality where you count the number of consective days. Instead do what I did and records days as clean or not clean. Its hard at first to let go completely, so start out slow. Stop watching for one day of the week, tell urself for this one day of the week im clean, and I can watch it as much as I want on the other days. After a couple of weeks make it two days, then three and so on. Keep at it, dont worry if u relapse, it will take time.

 

[bbestar]

http://www.porn-free.org
http://www.settingcaptivesfree.com

they have helped me very much

 

[Bible_Belt]

A girlfriend is an effective cure.

 

[Skilla_Staz]

Fo sho. When you get laid, porn gets boring.

 

[Phoenix_of_the_ashes]

A girlfriend is an effective cure.

Not for me.

 

[MAVER1CK]

I just use pron to get off.

I feel bad for the dudes who are addicted, thats some serious ****.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Not for me.

Really? If girl is not meeting your needs, then you need a new girl.

 

[bud_2005]

A girlfriend is an effective cure.

Not always because some porn starlets look absolutely flawless (Sara Jean Underwood 2007 PMOY for example) and your gfs usually don't so you choose to jack off to porn instead of being physical with your gf.

 

[kabatura]

A little help

Something that always got me when I was trying to not look at porn was ads online that had a sexy lady in them. I was on myspace a lot then and it was the True ads. Adblock for Firefox is really cool in that you can block any kind of ad or picture you want. It doesn't work extremely well as a filter though because it's so easy to turn off. But it may help by not planting as many seeds.

Your mentality seems to be different than mine though. Do you feel really guilty after you watch it, I don't feel guilty after just watching a tv show, and it sounds like it's a similar thing to do, like listening to music.

What I'm getting at is I think that maybe, making a strong decision that you don't want to watch porn all the time will help tons.

Also, for a while I did written affirmations, it worked very well, until I got lazy, or complacent and stopped.

Example: I kabatura, will not look at porn ever again

I think I did it 14 times. There' a lot of different ideas around on how many times to do this and I'm not sure if it matters.

 

[Potbelly]

That's insane...porn while you do homework? lmao...

 

[mastacheef]

im giggling not at you, but at porn.. i couldn't see it being that much of an addiction.. i hope you over come your addiction

 

[Bible_Belt]

If you guys like porn so much, get a girl and a camera and make some of your own

 

[lordson]

i only watch it when i fee like it and when i'm horny and know i'm not getting any sex for the next 3 days

i never watch it just for the hell of it, only watch it when you feel you need to

 

[Aboleo]

A girlfriend is an effective cure.