"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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basketballmoss

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This girl, proly one of the most popular in school, is.. like a lot of girls on Myspace. So I msged her and made her a friend. Everybody adding comments to her is like 'Lets hang out more!'. And stuff like that. But, she comments me and was like "I think we went th elementary school togehter, if you see me in teh hall, stop and tlak with me!' ( We are in differnt grades if you are wondering. )

I was thinking about NOT having any communication with her tomorrow, and waiting till friday and talking wtih her. Good idea? What do that masters say?

( Thanks! )
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KillaCam

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Smart thinking on the waiting ploy, just don't take it to extremes and ignore her if you see her on the basis it's too early.

Still..not a big fan of MySpace, it's so shallow and fake, nothing will ever beat meeting/communicating with a girl face to face.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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dannyc

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juelz DIP DIP santana SET SET. roly poly i like to eat boogie boogies. eight boom skate voom voom. its family ties DIPSET DIPSET. Camron is a lyrical genius :crackup:
 

Phat

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Wow.. Just go up and talk to her.. UR over thinking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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toddC

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usually i'm not one to like rip on people but dude cmon...you don't pick up chicks on myspace :(
 

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Originally posted by tyguy
DAFS- Do a fvcking search.
How about instead, you don't use stupid acronyms to try and make your self look like some cool, elite, "in-the-know" DJ?
 
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