"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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basketballmoss

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This girl, proly one of the most popular in school, is.. like a lot of girls on Myspace. So I msged her and made her a friend. Everybody adding comments to her is like 'Lets hang out more!'. And stuff like that. But, she comments me and was like "I think we went th elementary school togehter, if you see me in teh hall, stop and tlak with me!' ( We are in differnt grades if you are wondering. )

I was thinking about NOT having any communication with her tomorrow, and waiting till friday and talking wtih her. Good idea? What do that masters say?

( Thanks! )
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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KillaCam

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Smart thinking on the waiting ploy, just don't take it to extremes and ignore her if you see her on the basis it's too early.

Still..not a big fan of MySpace, it's so shallow and fake, nothing will ever beat meeting/communicating with a girl face to face.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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dannyc

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juelz DIP DIP santana SET SET. roly poly i like to eat boogie boogies. eight boom skate voom voom. its family ties DIPSET DIPSET. Camron is a lyrical genius :crackup:
 

Phat

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Wow.. Just go up and talk to her.. UR over thinking.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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toddC

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usually i'm not one to like rip on people but dude cmon...you don't pick up chicks on myspace :(
 

familyguyfan

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Originally posted by tyguy
DAFS- Do a fvcking search.
How about instead, you don't use stupid acronyms to try and make your self look like some cool, elite, "in-the-know" DJ?
 
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