jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
go to the bottom of the discussion forum click on dj bible then at the top it gives you choice of what u want click the book of pook .
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
pook doesn't seduce men because he's gay, he's just run out of women to seduce.jtrain 289 said:lol ok he's not gay but your right he doesnt use techniques thats why i want to talk ask him stuff cause i dont want to use techniques i just want to get some clarification on some things he said
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
you pretty summed up the pook bible there.He has improved himself to the point that his personality (and improved body) attract women. He doesn't use bullsh1t techniques.
backbreaker said:lol, where do people get off on calling him gay? am I missing something? Do I need to throw away all my pookie posts?![]()
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Great advice Wyldfire.Interceptor said:http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Look, guys.
Many of here are patient with you all. We know you have questions, and many of us have answers.
Many of us are willing to help you.
Some of us are pretty patient and tolerant.
But god damnit, read the DJ bible, people!!!
Start with that!
Most of what you need to know is in those resources.
Many people have bustted their ass to put this together for you all.
Thank them and us by informing yourself as much as humanly possible.
We are all growing here.
Many of us are very actively pursuing and living our dreams.
To be a part of that, start by learning. On your own.
Then come back when you have questions.
There are none so blind, as those who do not wish to see.
Naw, 217 posts without mentioning woman-haters, alcohol, pick up trucks, or prison? Not her.Great advice Wyldfire.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.