jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
go to the bottom of the discussion forum click on dj bible then at the top it gives you choice of what u want click the book of pook .
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
pook doesn't seduce men because he's gay, he's just run out of women to seduce.jtrain 289 said:lol ok he's not gay but your right he doesnt use techniques thats why i want to talk ask him stuff cause i dont want to use techniques i just want to get some clarification on some things he said
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
you pretty summed up the pook bible there.He has improved himself to the point that his personality (and improved body) attract women. He doesn't use bullsh1t techniques.
backbreaker said:lol, where do people get off on calling him gay? am I missing something? Do I need to throw away all my pookie posts?![]()
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Great advice Wyldfire.Interceptor said:http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Look, guys.
Many of here are patient with you all. We know you have questions, and many of us have answers.
Many of us are willing to help you.
Some of us are pretty patient and tolerant.
But god damnit, read the DJ bible, people!!!
Start with that!
Most of what you need to know is in those resources.
Many people have bustted their ass to put this together for you all.
Thank them and us by informing yourself as much as humanly possible.
We are all growing here.
Many of us are very actively pursuing and living our dreams.
To be a part of that, start by learning. On your own.
Then come back when you have questions.
There are none so blind, as those who do not wish to see.
Naw, 217 posts without mentioning woman-haters, alcohol, pick up trucks, or prison? Not her.Great advice Wyldfire.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.