jtrain 289
Senior Don Juan
go to the bottom of the discussion forum click on dj bible then at the top it gives you choice of what u want click the book of pook .
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
pook doesn't seduce men because he's gay, he's just run out of women to seduce.jtrain 289 said:lol ok he's not gay but your right he doesnt use techniques thats why i want to talk ask him stuff cause i dont want to use techniques i just want to get some clarification on some things he said
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
you pretty summed up the pook bible there.He has improved himself to the point that his personality (and improved body) attract women. He doesn't use bullsh1t techniques.
backbreaker said:lol, where do people get off on calling him gay? am I missing something? Do I need to throw away all my pookie posts?![]()
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Great advice Wyldfire.Interceptor said:http://www.jbspencer.com/djb/Downloads/The Book of Pook.pdf
Look, guys.
Many of here are patient with you all. We know you have questions, and many of us have answers.
Many of us are willing to help you.
Some of us are pretty patient and tolerant.
But god damnit, read the DJ bible, people!!!
Start with that!
Most of what you need to know is in those resources.
Many people have bustted their ass to put this together for you all.
Thank them and us by informing yourself as much as humanly possible.
We are all growing here.
Many of us are very actively pursuing and living our dreams.
To be a part of that, start by learning. On your own.
Then come back when you have questions.
There are none so blind, as those who do not wish to see.
Naw, 217 posts without mentioning woman-haters, alcohol, pick up trucks, or prison? Not her.Great advice Wyldfire.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.