"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poll: How many of you are in LTR?

How would you discribe your yourself

  • In a LTR

    Votes: 15 48.4%

  • In a MLTR

    Votes: 2 6.5%

  • Just having fun

    Votes: 8 25.8%

  • Other

    Votes: 6 19.4%
  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .
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Tallerguy

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I feel i need to get some back ground of the posters in Mature man. I get a feeling that alot of us are in LTR's. Not that it is a bad thing, it's just the type of questions that can be answered tends to be different.

Calarifcation
LTR is a exclusive relationship of 3 months +
MLTR obviously non exclusive but seeing more than 1 HB in a sexual relationship
Just having fun is seeing diferent HB's on ONS or short term relationships.
Not getting any is a dry spell of over 3 months
Other please post an explaination


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tallerguy

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I prefer everyone to be honest, nice or not, thats why I asked the question..

Hit the poll if you have not done so already! :woo:


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"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope, not in the right place for any kind of relationship. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm about so to do this with another person who's either figured out where they want to be or on the same place in the world as me just doesn't appeal.

Maybe I'll find a nice girl one of these days and we'll hit it off start dating and what not but it's not very likely concidering my lifestyle and train of thought.
 
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