"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poll: How many of you are in LTR?

How would you discribe your yourself

  • In a LTR

    Votes: 15 48.4%
  • In a MLTR

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Just having fun

    Votes: 8 25.8%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 19.4%

  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .

Tallerguy

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I feel i need to get some back ground of the posters in Mature man. I get a feeling that alot of us are in LTR's. Not that it is a bad thing, it's just the type of questions that can be answered tends to be different.

Calarifcation
LTR is a exclusive relationship of 3 months +
MLTR obviously non exclusive but seeing more than 1 HB in a sexual relationship
Just having fun is seeing diferent HB's on ONS or short term relationships.
Not getting any is a dry spell of over 3 months
Other please post an explaination


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Tallerguy

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I prefer everyone to be honest, nice or not, thats why I asked the question..

Hit the poll if you have not done so already! :woo:


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nope, not in the right place for any kind of relationship. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm about so to do this with another person who's either figured out where they want to be or on the same place in the world as me just doesn't appeal.

Maybe I'll find a nice girl one of these days and we'll hit it off start dating and what not but it's not very likely concidering my lifestyle and train of thought.
 
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