"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Poll: How many of you are in LTR?

How would you discribe your yourself

  • In a LTR

    Votes: 15 48.4%
  • In a MLTR

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Just having fun

    Votes: 8 25.8%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 19.4%

  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .

Tallerguy

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I feel i need to get some back ground of the posters in Mature man. I get a feeling that alot of us are in LTR's. Not that it is a bad thing, it's just the type of questions that can be answered tends to be different.

Calarifcation
LTR is a exclusive relationship of 3 months +
MLTR obviously non exclusive but seeing more than 1 HB in a sexual relationship
Just having fun is seeing diferent HB's on ONS or short term relationships.
Not getting any is a dry spell of over 3 months
Other please post an explaination


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Tallerguy

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I prefer everyone to be honest, nice or not, thats why I asked the question..

Hit the poll if you have not done so already! :woo:


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PRMoon

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Nope, not in the right place for any kind of relationship. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm about so to do this with another person who's either figured out where they want to be or on the same place in the world as me just doesn't appeal.

Maybe I'll find a nice girl one of these days and we'll hit it off start dating and what not but it's not very likely concidering my lifestyle and train of thought.
 
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