Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Poll: How many of you are in LTR?

How would you discribe your yourself

  • In a LTR

    Votes: 15 48.4%
  • In a MLTR

    Votes: 2 6.5%
  • Just having fun

    Votes: 8 25.8%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 19.4%

  • Total voters
    31
  • Poll closed .

Tallerguy

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I feel i need to get some back ground of the posters in Mature man. I get a feeling that alot of us are in LTR's. Not that it is a bad thing, it's just the type of questions that can be answered tends to be different.

Calarifcation
LTR is a exclusive relationship of 3 months +
MLTR obviously non exclusive but seeing more than 1 HB in a sexual relationship
Just having fun is seeing diferent HB's on ONS or short term relationships.
Not getting any is a dry spell of over 3 months
Other please post an explaination


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tallerguy

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I prefer everyone to be honest, nice or not, thats why I asked the question..

Hit the poll if you have not done so already! :woo:


Tallerguy
"he who hesitates, masturbates"
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PRMoon

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Nope, not in the right place for any kind of relationship. I'm still trying to figure out what I'm about so to do this with another person who's either figured out where they want to be or on the same place in the world as me just doesn't appeal.

Maybe I'll find a nice girl one of these days and we'll hit it off start dating and what not but it's not very likely concidering my lifestyle and train of thought.
 
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