"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Poligamy

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What could we learn from the past? Do you see any positive in it?
This is what makes me want to escape this society and retire with a woman in a remote location, build a small tribe of people, and cut off any access to internet
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What could we learn from the past? Do you see any positive in it?
This is what makes me want to escape this society and retire with a woman in a remote location, build a small tribe of people, and cut off any access to internet
Good luck with that
 

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Polygamy, especially in countries with smaller populations, would result in massive inbreeding which is never a good thing. It would also make the dating market an even bigger disaster than it already is as there would be much less available women, unless cheating becomes normalized, or the women are polygamous too so that it goes both ways, which sounds like something that would end up in total chaos.

I think strict monogamy is the favored relationship model for good reasons, and the reason why we in the West have built the type of stable societies we have now. We may not have the biggest populations, but at least we are a population of quality people. Many countries around the world wouldn't be as poor as they are if their populations were reduced by 80% because of polygamy, rampant promiscuity, and having many children for no reason other than "family honor".
 

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Women prefer polygamy because there is a limited number of top 10% men, and they would rather share one than have to lower their standards
 

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It is still present in less developed countries - in more developed countries it was overtaken by LTRs (but only periodic/lasting few to X years, rinse&repeat) monogamy, which seems to be more attuned to human life cycle. Some rich guys may probably manage few informal LTRs when married, therefore have more children and also financial obligations but most of the HQ females would have never accepted another female openly in romantic relationship with her man, therefore it is probably the most popular in high money but low EQ/formal education development circles (artists, some early-starters entrepreneurs, successful influencers, -salesmen types, people that inherited money but did not earn them etc.).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What could we learn from the past? Do you see any positive in it?
This is what makes me want to escape this society and retire with a woman in a remote location, build a small tribe of people, and cut off any access to internet
Go look into the social and economic outcomes of countries that have polygamy.
 

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What could we learn from the past? Do you see any positive in it?
This is what makes me want to escape this society and retire with a woman in a remote location, build a small tribe of people, and cut off any access to internet
Good luck with that.

 
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It's probably more natural than monogamy, but still presents a lot of problems. Any system involving the state is going to screw the individual.
 

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Go look into the social and economic outcomes of countries that have polygamy.
Which countries? The guy in the video is delusional. The feminism is all about empowering women (meaning any power value female has over a man - which is, mostly, sex-related) is amplified is man is forced to stay with her (therefore, be partially subdued by this power) therefore no, feminism will not boost polygamy ideas - rather, it will be as it was - females will compete actively for AAA man, reluctantly agree to be with other high tier male, allow to be courted by mid-to-high tier man (and enter relationships with some of them once AAA-A tier will become obviously unavailable to them) and will allow mid tier men to orbit them and low tier be their situational slaves from time (as it always was) i.e. punching bags for mockery or faked pity.

Therefore no, feminists will not accept polygamy idea, because it is not in their interest (feminism is an idea about social order but tweaked to the needs of females - mostly so-so in terms of attractiveness as really attractive females do not need it to be succesful just as really attractive men ("naturals") do not need manosphere/men's rights activism - men having legalised access to multiple females in formal relationships means redefinition of cheating as well as "white marriage" idea - it is also easy to imagine various male strategies like marrying for money (with female A) and later, for sex (with female B) which would instantly shift the power of relationship for female A.

Polygamy would also mean, that most attractive females would probably demotivate less attractive females (and males) from the formalised relationships (as there is more very attractive females than very attractive males, therefore AAA males would have it the best, then a significant number of very attractive females would monkey-branch en masse and a lot of less attractive people would get robbed from resources (because that's how it would effectively work for all these average looking guys paying for attention or females doing long range trips after guys that live above their social ladder but smiled few times to them and asked for coffee once or twice). Sounds like a recipe for social disaster.
 

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Go look into the social and economic outcomes of countries that have polygamy.
islam allows multiple wives... in a lot of Asian cultures in the not so distant past allowed wealthy men to have concubines and multiple wives. the trick was these men had to have resources to support these women.

depending on the environment, sometimes polygamy was beneficial to the tribe, country, etc... when all the men are killed in wars, when resources were scarce and only a few were able to obtain them, when most men died at the average of 30 due to the toils of everyday life, etc.. etc...

rarely in modern times, does polygamy make sense though...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This works if you are in some sort of tribal setup. Not so well if you live in a modern society.

People often hyper focus on one aspect of things in the past that may "sound good" without looking at all of the downsides that it has and how it would pertain to today.

Those people are usually the people who would be considered "radicalized" because they are unwilling to even consider anything that goes against what they believe no matter what facts are presented.
 

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What benefits are there for a woman that is involved in a polygamist relationship?

-She gets a man that has more resources? She's almost giving up monogamy to gain support/access to a man with greater resources that she could not obtain otherwise?
-She's bi and gets to have sex with the other wives as well as dihk on demand? lol
 
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You want sister wives?
Sure... you know what happens when you get a group of women around each other all the time? All the periods start syncing up. No, they won't all be on their period at the same time. One will have pms while another is on the rag while another is just getting off the rag.
Sure, that sounds great right?
You know what else happens when you get a group of women around each other all the time? Drama.
We wish you luck with your sister wife colony away from civilization. We won't be able to read your posts since your civilization won't have the internet.

Wouldn't it just be easier to be a brother husband?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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