"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Point of no return with this girl? Help

nmartinez12443

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Went on a date thursday with a hb8 went very well and we agreed to meet up on Saturday night and go out to a bar. So I texted her at 1 pm to find out if she wanted to still do something. 7 hours latter at 8 pm i get this message:

Her "Hey i know we were suppose to hang out but I am supposed to go to Chicago with my friends we can hang out latter this week"

So I sent her this message

ME "Hey I got your message wish we could hang out next week but me and my friend are going to Mongolia to get his dog a sex change operation won't be back till April"

Her: "That was a joke right"

Me "Wish it was were getting on the plane right now see you in 5 months"

Now she has been calling me nonstop and I was wondering if I did go back out with her should I just say "it was a joke"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ollie

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haha nicely done. That's totally something I'd do. If she's calling you non stop I'd just play it cool for now. No better way to raise the interest level than to have her thinking about you all the time.
 

Gangster Of Love

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double post.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Very well done! She knows that you get it, and you are calling her on it. Call her back and give her some $hit. She's basically admiting she did wrong and willing to take your $hit because of it.

Tell her without even answering the question, "You're on probation for that, how will you make it up to me?", let her qualify herself to you. If she starts getting difficult or goofy, and it is obvious it is not going anywhere, just tell her you have to go.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewAndImproved

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Brilliant! What's the problem? I'm gonna have to use this in the upcoming weeks.
 
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