"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Point of no return with this girl? Help

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nmartinez12443

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Went on a date thursday with a hb8 went very well and we agreed to meet up on Saturday night and go out to a bar. So I texted her at 1 pm to find out if she wanted to still do something. 7 hours latter at 8 pm i get this message:

Her "Hey i know we were suppose to hang out but I am supposed to go to Chicago with my friends we can hang out latter this week"

So I sent her this message

ME "Hey I got your message wish we could hang out next week but me and my friend are going to Mongolia to get his dog a sex change operation won't be back till April"

Her: "That was a joke right"

Me "Wish it was were getting on the plane right now see you in 5 months"

Now she has been calling me nonstop and I was wondering if I did go back out with her should I just say "it was a joke"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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haha nicely done. That's totally something I'd do. If she's calling you non stop I'd just play it cool for now. No better way to raise the interest level than to have her thinking about you all the time.
 
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double post.
 
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Gangster Of Love

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Very well done! She knows that you get it, and you are calling her on it. Call her back and give her some $hit. She's basically admiting she did wrong and willing to take your $hit because of it.

Tell her without even answering the question, "You're on probation for that, how will you make it up to me?", let her qualify herself to you. If she starts getting difficult or goofy, and it is obvious it is not going anywhere, just tell her you have to go.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Brilliant! What's the problem? I'm gonna have to use this in the upcoming weeks.
 
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