"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Point of no return with this girl? Help

nmartinez12443

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Went on a date thursday with a hb8 went very well and we agreed to meet up on Saturday night and go out to a bar. So I texted her at 1 pm to find out if she wanted to still do something. 7 hours latter at 8 pm i get this message:

Her "Hey i know we were suppose to hang out but I am supposed to go to Chicago with my friends we can hang out latter this week"

So I sent her this message

ME "Hey I got your message wish we could hang out next week but me and my friend are going to Mongolia to get his dog a sex change operation won't be back till April"

Her: "That was a joke right"

Me "Wish it was were getting on the plane right now see you in 5 months"

Now she has been calling me nonstop and I was wondering if I did go back out with her should I just say "it was a joke"
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ollie

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haha nicely done. That's totally something I'd do. If she's calling you non stop I'd just play it cool for now. No better way to raise the interest level than to have her thinking about you all the time.
 

Gangster Of Love

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double post.
 

Gangster Of Love

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Very well done! She knows that you get it, and you are calling her on it. Call her back and give her some $hit. She's basically admiting she did wrong and willing to take your $hit because of it.

Tell her without even answering the question, "You're on probation for that, how will you make it up to me?", let her qualify herself to you. If she starts getting difficult or goofy, and it is obvious it is not going anywhere, just tell her you have to go.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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NewAndImproved

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Brilliant! What's the problem? I'm gonna have to use this in the upcoming weeks.
 
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