"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pof/online help?

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adamw5963

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I have been using pof for a little while. I've gotten some numbers with ok results but I think I have just gotten lucky or got by from my looks. I have been using this opener that I found.

"Hey! I thought you were very pretty and I wanted to see what you were like. After all, there's more to people than looks. So maybe there's something unique about you. Am I right? :)"

Well I usually get "ur right" or like this last girl gave me a whole paragraph qualifying herself to me. I really don't know what I should be saying next after she qualifies herself. I do know that I need to set a date as soon as possible. Any help would be appreciated.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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incognito42

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That's nor bad man...follow up with "that sounds interesting. So how's the site been treating you so far? =) (your name)...they'll respond typically with "terrible. This place is full of pervs lol"...your final response should be "nothing great here yet either. I'm actually not on here much. Been busy a lot. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. =) (your name)....

Either she gives the number or she doesn't and you move on to the others that you should be simultaneously spamming. It doesn't take any long than that to number close. You will find out right then if they have interest in meeting you or if they just want a chat buddy. If they don't respond or don't give the number they just want a hat buddy, and you don't have time for that

Stay focused on the goal, stay short and sweet and message them just enough to feel comfortable with you, and number close and move on
 
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