"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Pof/online help?

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adamw5963

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I have been using pof for a little while. I've gotten some numbers with ok results but I think I have just gotten lucky or got by from my looks. I have been using this opener that I found.

"Hey! I thought you were very pretty and I wanted to see what you were like. After all, there's more to people than looks. So maybe there's something unique about you. Am I right? :)"

Well I usually get "ur right" or like this last girl gave me a whole paragraph qualifying herself to me. I really don't know what I should be saying next after she qualifies herself. I do know that I need to set a date as soon as possible. Any help would be appreciated.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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incognito42

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That's nor bad man...follow up with "that sounds interesting. So how's the site been treating you so far? =) (your name)...they'll respond typically with "terrible. This place is full of pervs lol"...your final response should be "nothing great here yet either. I'm actually not on here much. Been busy a lot. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. =) (your name)....

Either she gives the number or she doesn't and you move on to the others that you should be simultaneously spamming. It doesn't take any long than that to number close. You will find out right then if they have interest in meeting you or if they just want a chat buddy. If they don't respond or don't give the number they just want a hat buddy, and you don't have time for that

Stay focused on the goal, stay short and sweet and message them just enough to feel comfortable with you, and number close and move on
 
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