"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pof/online help?

adamw5963

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I have been using pof for a little while. I've gotten some numbers with ok results but I think I have just gotten lucky or got by from my looks. I have been using this opener that I found.

"Hey! I thought you were very pretty and I wanted to see what you were like. After all, there's more to people than looks. So maybe there's something unique about you. Am I right? :)"

Well I usually get "ur right" or like this last girl gave me a whole paragraph qualifying herself to me. I really don't know what I should be saying next after she qualifies herself. I do know that I need to set a date as soon as possible. Any help would be appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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incognito42

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That's nor bad man...follow up with "that sounds interesting. So how's the site been treating you so far? =) (your name)...they'll respond typically with "terrible. This place is full of pervs lol"...your final response should be "nothing great here yet either. I'm actually not on here much. Been busy a lot. Give me your number and I'll give you a call sometime. =) (your name)....

Either she gives the number or she doesn't and you move on to the others that you should be simultaneously spamming. It doesn't take any long than that to number close. You will find out right then if they have interest in meeting you or if they just want a chat buddy. If they don't respond or don't give the number they just want a hat buddy, and you don't have time for that

Stay focused on the goal, stay short and sweet and message them just enough to feel comfortable with you, and number close and move on
 
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