"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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You bet your ass I did, got more women sending me initial emails and compliments during the conversation than before.
That picture is killing me man! Girls like sh1t like that. You either need a silly/weird picture or one of your huge pecs and abs all over the place. Those are automatic conversation starters for the socially inept women on POF.

My friend didn't get any messages until he put up a dumb picture with himself covered with fake blood (from Halloween). Girls online really have issues.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Reborn357

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I'm going to give this online dating stuff a try. Incognito, send me your info as well, it would be very helpful to see how you do it .
 

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Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
 

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vapor8 said:
Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
Change a word or remove a word. Or add a smiley at the end every ten copy and paste message you send.

Try sending this new message I thought of as a first message. I just got three replies in under two minutes off another dudes profile.

I was thinking of a good opening message to send you then I thought to myself: Hmmm..This heavenly blessed beauty looks like trouble...:devil:
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Naughty Ninja

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Incog. Try sending this new message on your profile. I tweaked it and have been killing it on POF with Brandons. Like twelve replies several quick exchanges and two numbers already:

I was thinking of the perfect opening message to send you my future 100% Goddess wifey, then I thought to myself: Hmmm..I don't know but this little heavenly blessed beauty definitely looks like trouble right here... :devil:
 
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