"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pof/online dating help thread

TillTheEndOfTime

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BeginningDJ said:
You bet your ass I did, got more women sending me initial emails and compliments during the conversation than before.
That picture is killing me man! Girls like sh1t like that. You either need a silly/weird picture or one of your huge pecs and abs all over the place. Those are automatic conversation starters for the socially inept women on POF.

My friend didn't get any messages until he put up a dumb picture with himself covered with fake blood (from Halloween). Girls online really have issues.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Reborn357

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I'm going to give this online dating stuff a try. Incognito, send me your info as well, it would be very helpful to see how you do it .
 

vapor8

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Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
 

Naughty Ninja

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vapor8 said:
Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
Change a word or remove a word. Or add a smiley at the end every ten copy and paste message you send.

Try sending this new message I thought of as a first message. I just got three replies in under two minutes off another dudes profile.

I was thinking of a good opening message to send you then I thought to myself: Hmmm..This heavenly blessed beauty looks like trouble...:devil:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Naughty Ninja

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Incog. Try sending this new message on your profile. I tweaked it and have been killing it on POF with Brandons. Like twelve replies several quick exchanges and two numbers already:

I was thinking of the perfect opening message to send you my future 100% Goddess wifey, then I thought to myself: Hmmm..I don't know but this little heavenly blessed beauty definitely looks like trouble right here... :devil:
 
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