"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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BeginningDJ said:
You bet your ass I did, got more women sending me initial emails and compliments during the conversation than before.
That picture is killing me man! Girls like sh1t like that. You either need a silly/weird picture or one of your huge pecs and abs all over the place. Those are automatic conversation starters for the socially inept women on POF.

My friend didn't get any messages until he put up a dumb picture with himself covered with fake blood (from Halloween). Girls online really have issues.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I'm going to give this online dating stuff a try. Incognito, send me your info as well, it would be very helpful to see how you do it .
 

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Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
 

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vapor8 said:
Hook me up with the info.
Btw, thought you couldn't copy and paste in POF... How do you get around that?

~thanks
Change a word or remove a word. Or add a smiley at the end every ten copy and paste message you send.

Try sending this new message I thought of as a first message. I just got three replies in under two minutes off another dudes profile.

I was thinking of a good opening message to send you then I thought to myself: Hmmm..This heavenly blessed beauty looks like trouble...:devil:
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Naughty Ninja

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Incog. Try sending this new message on your profile. I tweaked it and have been killing it on POF with Brandons. Like twelve replies several quick exchanges and two numbers already:

I was thinking of the perfect opening message to send you my future 100% Goddess wifey, then I thought to myself: Hmmm..I don't know but this little heavenly blessed beauty definitely looks like trouble right here... :devil:
 
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