pof objections and how to overcome

[thunder_god]

Just received this message "It was an interesting message. However don't think it would work with us since I'm a devout catholic and you are non-religious"

I used naughtninja's to get her to message me
Viewed you; opener:
Alright so youre just going to look and not ask? I call bull .

Ok you have to go back now and click the "send a message" on my profile otherwise I might explode into a million pieces, would you be happy with that?

How would you respond back to this message?

 

[asa_don]

first of all, quit using those lame naughty ninja openers, they are stupid and over used, every guy who can't talk to women uses those openers, tons of chcks have already gotten them, they know all those lame lines, that's why you guys are getting rejected, use you own openers/messages, quit being fake with lame scripted lines.

read their profiles first before you write them, it takes 2 seconds to skim what they write, then you will know the types of guys they don't date, if they are too religious you know not to message them, if they sound weird or crazy you know not to as well.

you got rejected, why are you going to respond to her message? nothing you can say is going to change her mind, it might not even be because of the religion, that could be an excuse because she is not attracted to you, either way it's not going to work, religious women want a religious guy on their level.

use your own game, be real, not fake, read profiles, hit up chicks that look compatible with you, otherwise you are wasting your time, you will get rejected.

 

[nismo-4]

Don't waste your time with this girl. She already rejected you. Move on.

Case closed. Spin more plates.

 

[Rainman4707]

His openers have got me a huge amount of numbers in the past.

Girls replying with "that's the best message I've ever received on here"

I owe a lot to Naughty Ninja for sharing those openers

 

[marmel75]

His openers have got me a huge amount of numbers in the past.

Girls replying with "that's the best message I've ever received on here"

I owe a lot to Naughty Ninja for sharing those openers

I second this...I was getting 8-10 numbers a day using his stuff...anyone saying it doesn't work or is "lame" has never tried them...the dude is a master...

I mean, yeah if you are not looking good or at least the best you can it won't work, but then again neither is anything else...

So many women said it was the best message they've ever gotten and how most dudes send lame stuff...

His stuff works, plain and simple, and I speak from experience.

However, I love using the following for women that viewed me:

"Hey now, I'm pay per view, I don't allow women to check me out without at least saying "Hello" ;-)"

You will get a pretty good response rate, then when they respond make sure you ask "How's the site treating you"...easy pickings bro, easy pickings

 

[asa_don]

His openers have got me a huge amount of numbers in the past.

getting numbers doesn't mean anything, some chicks give out their numbers like candy, getting laid is what counts.

Girls replying with "that's the best message I've ever received on here"

then when another guy sends them a better one they will tell him the same thing.

anything more than a "hey what's up?" or a "hi sexy" chicks will think is better lol

after they get that same message you sent from several other dudes, they won't think it's the best anymore.

I owe a lot to Naughty Ninja for sharing those openers

his openers had nothing to do with it, it has to do with the chick liking you, you could say "boo" and she still will think you are funny, some ugly ass dude that copies and pastes the same message won't get sh!t by using it.

I second this...I was getting 8-10 numbers a day using his stuff...anyone saying it doesn't work or is "lame" has never tried them...the dude is a master...

numbers don't mean anything unless you're geting laid, you still would have gotten numbers by using your own openers, it has to do with the chick liking you, not an opener.

his openers have been spammed all over the internet, lots of guys are using them, most chicks already gotten them before, they don't work anymore.

So many women said it was the best message they've ever gotten and how most dudes send lame stuff...

His stuff works, plain and simple, and I speak from experience.

However, I love using the following for women that viewed me:

"Hey now, I'm pay per view, I don't allow women to check me out without at least saying "Hello" ;-)"

You will get a pretty good response rate, then when they respond make sure you ask "How's the site treating you"...easy pickings bro, easy pickings

then when another guy sends them a better one they will tell him the same thing.

lol. every dude that has seen his openers are using that stuff, chicks are geting that same sh!t, it has been spammed to death.

Agreed. I never understood why guys use his "openers."

that's because they are unoriginal and can't open a woman, they need someone to help them, then after she replies, they dont know what to say, what message do we see from them?

How would you respond back to this message?

what we see above, they don't know how to talk to women except for copying and pasting openers, then when the chick gives a different reponse they have no clue what to do.

i was looking at different forums a few month ago, naughty ninja spammed his openers there too, so many guys are using them all over including here.

In my opinion, the BEST opener that I've ever used is:

"I would like you to join me for a drink this Monday at the Rusty Nail on 5th and Main in Tampa. Will you meet me there. Espi."


That's IT.

i like it, simple and straight to the point, no bullsh!t, if she is interested she will agree.

did that woman you were talking about in this thread ever reply to that message you sent?

 

[Rainman4707]

Great! If it works for you then keep doing it.

In my mind, I think inviting them for a meetup is the most efficient way I have been able to meet women face to face. In fact I rarely ever ask for phone numbers anymore. I'm finding that once I invite them for a drink, and they accept, almost 100% of the time, they will offer up the number without my even asking for it.

I just personally think it's a waste of my time volleying back and forth with witty emails. Some chicks dig it, I suppose, but I want the ones who will like me for asking them straight up, from the outset, if they wanna get together.

Not saying my way is better, though. All kinds of ways work. Some chicks definitely like to volley back and forth. I just never felt comfortable with NN because I considered his openers as overkill.

It has worked for me as a quick pickup. I was surprised at the amount of success i got using NN openers.

I however do understand understand that women like a man to pick something out in their profile & comment on it.

I like to mix it up a bit. I mostly use NN openers for quickness as he did.

I can understand what you are saying Espi. It makes sense.

 

[Rainman4707]

getting numbers doesn't mean anything, some chicks give out their numbers like candy, getting laid is what counts.



then when another guy sends them a better one they will tell him the same thing.

anything more than a "hey what's up?" or a "hi sexy" chicks will think is better lol

after they get that same message you sent from several other dudes, they won't think it's the best anymore.



his openers had nothing to do with it, it has to do with the chick liking you, you could say "boo" and she still will think you are funny, some ugly ass dude that copies and pastes the same message won't get sh!t by using it.




numbers don't mean anything unless you're geting laid, you still would have gotten numbers by using your own openers, it has to do with the chick liking you, not an opener.

his openers have been spammed all over the internet, lots of guys are using them, most chicks already gotten them before, they don't work anymore.



then when another guy sends them a better one they will tell him the same thing.

lol. every dude that has seen his openers are using that stuff, chicks are geting that same sh!t, it has been spammed to death.




that's because they are unoriginal and can't open a woman, they need someone to help them, then after she replies, they dont know what to say, what message do we see from them?




what we see above, they don't know how to talk to women except for copying and pasting openers, then when the chick gives a different reponse they have no clue what to do.

i was looking at different forums a few month ago, naughty ninja spammed his openers there too, so many guys are using them all over including here.





i like it, simple and straight to the point, no bullsh!t, if she is interested she will agree.

did that woman you were talking about in this thread ever reply to that message you sent?

I did get laid

 

[marmel75]

I did get laid

So did I, and more numbers gives you more chances especially when using a fish in the barrel approach like POF

 

[thunder_god]

I just had some wack job message me on pof today using naughty ninja's profile.

her: hey nice to meet u �� ur pretty cute

I wasn't at home when she messaged me then I got this a few hrs later:

her: Hey so are u gonna replt (already appears to be needy)
me: Hey you. How's it going? How's the site been treating you so far? =)

her: ur pretty attractive

She looks anorexic and weird and I'm not really feeling like going out with her lol but I'm dateless and optionless at the moment. What do you guys think?

 

[Rainman4707]

me: Hey you. How's it going? How's the site been treating you so far? =)

Hahaha lol makes me laugh seeing someone else use this line that I have used on countless broads!

If you want to f*ck her, then f*ck her...if you don't then don't.

Like NN said wear protection though

 

[asa_don]

I just had some wack job message me on pof today using naughty ninja's profile.

her: hey nice to meet u �� ur pretty cute

I wasn't at home when she messaged me then I got this a few hrs later:

her: Hey so are u gonna replt (already appears to be needy)
me: Hey you. How's it going? How's the site been treating you so far? =)

her: ur pretty attractive

She looks anorexic and weird and I'm not really feeling like going out with her lol but I'm dateless and optionless at the moment. What do you guys think?

:crackup:

i like how she ignored your question.

if you aren't attracted to her, why bother to chat with her?

Hahaha lol makes me laugh seeing someone else use this line that I have used on countless broads!

If you want to f*ck her, then f*ck her...if you don't then don't.

Like NN said wear protection though

:crackup:

what the fvck do you think i've been telling you about his lines/openers being over used by tons of guys, every dude that reads his thread uses them, thats why they don't work anymore except on the few chicks who haven't heard them yet.

damn, this sh!t goes right over your head doesn't it?

Well it still works for me Asa. I don't live in America so maybe in my city they aren't used as much.

but if other dudes start using them then you will run into a problem as well.

I like how she didn't even bother to mention anything from my profile other then my looks. I'm not really interested in ****ing her but I don't have much experience dating neither so I don't know what to do. She is way lower then my standards too.

you should keep chatting with her to get some experience, who cares if you don't want to bang her, practice on her, then you can get better for the chcks you want to bang

 

[Rainman4707]

:what the fvck do you think i've been telling you about his lines/openers being over used by tons of guys, every dude that reads his thread uses them, thats why they don't work anymore except on the few chicks who haven't heard them yet.

damn, this sh!t goes right over your head doesn't it?

Well it still works for me Asa. I don't live in America so maybe in my city they aren't used as much.

 

[thunder_god]

Hahaha lol makes me laugh seeing someone else use this line that I have used on countless broads!

If you want to f*ck her, then f*ck her...if you don't then don't.

Like NN said wear protection though

I like how she didn't even bother to mention anything from my profile other then my looks. I'm not really interested in ****ing her but I don't have much experience dating neither so I don't know what to do. She is way lower then my standards too.

 

[Rainman4707]

I like how she didn't even bother to mention anything from my profile other then my looks. I'm not really interested in ****ing her but I don't have much experience dating neither so I don't know what to do. She is way lower then my standards too.

Last year I hadn't had sex for a while so lowered my standards (not afraid to admit that)
I used women for practice so when a woman I cared about came along I could fvck her good!
These woman were still 6.5/7's that I was fvcking.

Keep learning & you will get plenty of dates. Yeah...from what I've read...probs best to skip this woman

 

[thunder_god]

Last year I hadn't had sex for a while so lowered my standards (not afraid to admit that)
I used women for practice so when a woman I cared about came along I could fvck her good!
These woman were still 6.5/7's that I was fvcking.

Keep learning & you will get plenty of dates. Yeah...from what I've read...probs best to skip this woman

She's a 5 at best and that's being generous. I mean I can go as low as a 6 but a 4 or 5 I don't think I can bring myself to do it.

 

[Rainman4707]

She's a 5 at best and that's being generous. I mean I can go as low as a 6 but a 4 or 5 I don't think I can bring myself to do it.

Read my thread "My worst dating experience" ....pffftt :s