“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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POF Milf Report - Fingered her but smelled :(

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I ended up meeting up with yet another POF milf yesterday for drinks. We had been talking/texting randomly for about a month. We were going to meet sooner but ended up getting the flu, and then I ended up getting sick the week after. She has a 2 year old son from her ex that she was with since high school. They have had an on and off again relationship for a while, but she said she hasn't been with him intimately in 2 years, and that he has a girlfriend now.

So I have her go in and grab some seats at this popular happy hour. We both live about 5 miles away so we're close. At first she seems a little stand offish, but I hold my frame and making conversation. I smile a lot which I often do, and after a little bit she begins to loosen up. There are however a few silent pauses thoughout which in my experience girls take as a bad sign, but whatever.

So before our I date I tell her that I can only stay for a little while because I have a work call later. I forgot to add that in there. Ok so back to the date... so as she starts getting more comfortable, I start some light kino by touching her arm and leaning in to ask her something... I notice her body language changes and her legs were pointing in towards me. I did ask her about her son's father where she gave me the background info I posted above. She then said she has dated and has had boyfriends since and doesn't want me to think I'm a prude. Eventually we are looking at something on her phone and I reach my arm across her chair and then subtely put it around her... she is cool with it. After 3 drinks, I tell her I have to get going but that I'd walk her to her car. While we are walking she asks me if i had fun and I said I did. I also asked if she could drive me to my car. So we get in her car, she starts it up, and before she could get it ready to go I lean in and kiss her... it started out as soft kissing then we start making out intensely. When I sucked on her neck she seemed ticklish which is a little out of the ordinary as most girls go crazy when I do this. But anyway she keeps kissing me, and asks me if I'm having fun, I said yes. Then as we are kissing she sort of starts rubbing her hand near my junk, I moan to let her know I like it. I start feeling her up a bit, she then takes my hand and puts it down her pants... I start fingering her **** then in her, mixing it up and she is going crazy moaning... She then says "I wish you didn't have that call so we can go back your place and Fvck" I told her it was ok... and I actually started winding down the action at this point... Anyway after I got done fingering her my finger smelled!!! Like I guess like a vagina but very strong.... I kind of am a little turned off to be honest... Anyway later when we got home she texted me and said she didn't expect it to go that far tonight...

But anyway... Would a strong vagina smell turn you off or should I accept this? I washed my hands but even this morning I still smelled some traces on it... She keeps asking me what I'm looking for and I've been deflecting the question... but I know I could probably bang this girl if I wanted to... But would you be concerned given the strong smell of her pvssy?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strong smell could be due to lots of things. First I would consider is STDs considering how physical she got on the first date. It could be like that if she worked out or has done something physical that day. If it is really bad, it might be an indicator or poor hygiene.
 

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What did it smell like? Tuna? Odor is bacterial, and a woman's vag bacteria varies all the time. It's hard to tell much from just one incident.

I was with a girl once whose pvssy smelled like a sweaty fistful of copper pennies. It was strong, but it wasn't bad. Pheromones.
 

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She does go to the gym regularly on like her lunch at work and she came to see me after work. But I would assume she showered, she smelled good outside of her vagina.

As far as the smell...honestly this best way I can describe it is the smell of a regular pvssy with a strong after scent of like Weed! Like you know when people smoke weed and you smell it in a hall way or something? That was like the scent that came off strong
 

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I just found the following on Google...

Bacterial vaginosis — an overgrowth of normally occurring vaginal bacteria — is the most common vaginal infection that causes a vaginal odor. Trichomoniasis — a sexually transmitted infection — also can lead to vaginal odor. Chlamydia and gonorrhea infections usually don't cause vaginal odors.

So could I potentially catch Trichomoniasis and what would it do to me? I have never heard of this STI before...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So could I potentially catch Trichomoniasis and what would it do to me? I have never heard of this STI before...
Your post says it's sexually transmitted…
 

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Guys can get trick but it does not cause symptoms in them. They only know they have it when their partner has it. It causes little to no symptoms in women either.
 

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I just found the following on Google...

Bacterial vaginosis — an overgrowth of normally occurring vaginal bacteria — is the most common vaginal infection that causes a vaginal odor. Trichomoniasis — a sexually transmitted infection — also can lead to vaginal odor. Chlamydia and gonorrhea infections usually don't cause vaginal odors.

So could I potentially catch Trichomoniasis and what would it do to me? I have never heard of this STI before...
Probably bacterial vaginosis, but one cant be too sure. I thought all girls pussies smelled fishy until I left my ex. When I went down on the last girl it smelled basically nothing, it was heaven!
 

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I've been seeing someone casually for a year. She smelled really strong when I first met her. It was like salty fries with ketchup and fish. I would bury my face in her neck so I didn't have to smell her. She just thought I was kissing her neck lol. But after a few months she started smelling good. I think it was cigarettes that made her smell bad. She quit around the time she smelled better.

I could stay with her if she was totally awesome in other ways. If she was hot, funny, smart, had it together, good on bed.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If her snatch smelled like pot, I bet she smokes. Lol, was it Brown Mexican or indica scented :)

Hmmmmm <takes a sniff> my snatch doesn't smell....

It could have been something she smoked, something she ate, she could have worn tight pants all day, she could be close to, or just ended, her period,or she has an infection.

The only way to know if it's an ongoing thing is to examine the goods again.....

Do report back!
 

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For the record, an over the counter water and vinegar douche can be a literal odor changer, restoring the ph of the vagina. It's inexpensive too!
 

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Probably bacterial vaginosis, but one cant be too sure. I thought all girls pussies smelled fishy until I left my ex. When I went down on the last girl it smelled basically nothing, it was heaven!
I mean as long as I don't put myself at a health risk, I guess I can deal with it right...

For the record, an over the counter water and vinegar douche can be a literal odor changer, restoring the ph of the vagina. It's inexpensive too!
and how exactly do I broach the subject with her lol
 

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"Is that me or you?"
When she asks why you said that, say something smelled strange, but you had onions and garlic in your lunch, so you don't really know what you smelled. Leave it at that, she will get the hint if you don't smell like onions or any other bad odor to her…
Works best when she's in bed with you after sex.
If it doesn't work after the first time do it again 2-3 weeks later.
 
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I mean as long as I don't put myself at a health risk, I guess I can deal with it right...



and how exactly do I broach the subject with her lol
lol, I know right?!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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A stinky vag is most likely a budding yeast infection. As a man, you can contract that from a woman. You'll get little white zits on your d!ck. It is painless and goes away very quickly on its own. And yeah, I know from experience.
 

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A stinky vag is most likely a budding yeast infection. As a man, you can contract that from a woman. You'll get little white zits on your d!ck. It is painless and goes away very quickly on its own. And yeah, I know from experience.
Sometimes you just gotta get down in the trenches and do the dirty work right? If we don't someone else willl…
 
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A stinky vag is most likely a budding yeast infection. As a man, you can contract that from a woman. You'll get little white zits on your d!ck. It is painless and goes away very quickly on its own. And yeah, I know from experience.
umm, not always, my ex gave me yeast infection every summer. Itches like mad and burns, skin cracks open, had to take pills and cream to get rid of it. Usually occurred while taking antibiotics for bacterial infection down there. Every summer. Sucked...
 

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Nope, when I smell stinky vag "in the beginning", the first time we try to have sex, its a total turn off. It's only happen to me twice that I can remember, but both times I declinded..

Now if the first time is ok, and the smell comes later, I deal with it then and I'm upfront. But that first impression has got to be a good one, otherwise no!
 

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umm, not always, my ex gave me yeast infection every summer. Itches like mad and burns, skin cracks open, had to take pills and cream to get rid of it.
The pills and the cream are the problem. They make it a lot worse. It's much better to let your immune system take care of it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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