"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pof meet, no date, went straight to hers for sex, couldn't perform, buyers remorse

Weezzyy

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There is another way to get over you sexual anxiety of touching a women, a prostitute, this will help you get over the nervousness and improve your sex for the real deal. I havent done this myself but when I think of a fix to your case, this comes to mind. Good luck
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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big weezy

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i cut out the masturbation long ago. that's the problem i think, when i did it more i was more h0rny now it's barely once every 2 weeks. either my testosterone has gone down inexplicably or something else psychological.

unsurprisingly she has a lot of 'problems' i left no contact and responded to her about something about chemistry can be forced in the long run as the more you sleep with someone you become addicted to them and she agreed then said something about it being too quick and she might be scared and not sure what she wants and she has all these problems.

i dont mind really, i just want some regular sex if i can get it. i just dont want to be her therapist which is what is happening so i'm no contacting, all this BS talk about being in love with her ex still blah blah afc orbiter, i brought it on myself though.. took wrong direction of the convo. i'll just ignore any talk of that.

she's isolated and depressed etc, i feel sorry for her, but in no way am i gona fall for her or have feelings, i just want to feel that sweet pu$$y again. i'm no contacting now, she feels she has me so if she loses me she's more likely to come running back ( deeply insecure, addicted to men who hurt her, so many problems.. exception to the rule)

we'll see she's going on a beach holiday by herself for 2 weeks end of this week (ergo she'll be pounded by many many guys over the next 2 weeks) then we'll see. im not holding my breath. no contact means no contact.

on the plus side i got another number yesterday in person so might have a good shot at some more sex end of this week, she seemed dtf.

and also some other pof girl is coming back from asia tomorrow who's into me, so things are looking up (except my d!ck haha)
 

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i cut out the masturbation long ago. that's the problem i think, when i did it more i was more h0rny now it's barely once every 2 weeks. either my testosterone has gone down inexplicably or something else psychological.
Yep. I pretty much turn asexual when I don't fap. Don't follow up that no fap nonsense. The whole philosophy revolves around addicts, guys who fap to gangbang porn 50 times a day. Of course they're going to feel like a completely new man after quitting that. A normal dude following no fap is like quitting alcohol because an alcoholic told him to. I do think most men will benefit from limiting porn however.
 
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