"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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POF - Looking for Friends?

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So apparently my bipolar ex is online most nights hours into the next day chatting up people to be friends of hers. I only know this because I am also on there and am finding it harder to get out there and meet people. PoF is good practice after recently becoming single.

On her profile she explicitedly states that she wants only a platonic relationship with no one night stands or FWB. Is she trying to fish for guys while protecting her butt incase she isn't interested in them? That is what I have read in many PoF discussions... It gives a girl an out if they aren't interested.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Its their "defense" against being a s1ut.

They think that by putting the opposite of what they truly want, that guys wont be able to figure it out. But the better question is....why do you even care to ask about her? Shes obviously low quality and you shouldnt give a sh1t about her.

If Id have seen some "bpd ex" on a dating website....Id laugh to myself and think "the poor fool who deals with that one..." and go about my life. I wouldnt come to a forum to ask about her...
 
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"just friends" is a very efficient way for women on 'dating' sites, harvest a swarthe of orbiters, when she finds one she actually finds attractive or is the best overall package, she will produce the goods. in the meantime, she will still be approaching (messaging) the eye candy and opening her legs for them at will
 
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Just friends=DTF
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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