"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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POF Chick im seeing saw my online profile

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I am on both OKC and POF.

Met a chick from POF in Real Life, been on 3 dates. Had sex on the third.

Meeting her this weekend. She seems a little bit attached.

Haven`t logged in POF. But I've kept communicating with a few other chicks on OKC.

Last night I noticed a blank profile of a chick the same age as the one Ive been dating visited my profile. (on which it says the last time I've logged in).

That made me worried, what if the chick i'm seeing saw that I am still at least semi active on online dating sites?

What are you guys thoughts on this?

Can this be a make or break deal with chicks?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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In the case of POF I did notice it shows last time online. You can say the app on your phone keeps you signed in. Or just use OKC while your dating her.
 
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is she still on pof? be your ar$e she is still logging in, just be upfront, you arent exclusive, if she sees you online, = she is or has been, online, if she has a fake profile, she is stalking you = red flag, be prepared for the .."my friend is on pof/ok cupid and she says she recognised you on there"
 
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Even if she saw you on there, you've been on 3 dates. You're not married. Hell, you're barely even in the category of "dating".

Don't do that thing where you convince yourself that women are these emotional, relationship-centric, delicate creatures. I've made that mistake myself. If she wants to be exclusive, let her ask, and then make your decision. Until then, keep spinning plates and assume that she is doing the same.
 
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Yeah, I agree. That is what I wanted to hear.

I like the chick, and like I said she seems pretty attached already.. kinda would prefer her not knowing I am still active on OKC. But I want to keep spinning plates.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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